madag7_m Posted June 18, 2017 Posted June 18, 2017 i ended 3years old relationship with my first boyfriend and after a month i meet a nice guy, he seem so sweet and he looked interested in me, we meet and had sex and wonderful time but he said he can't be in a sserious relationship and he hurt his ex with and he can't be emotional and in a long term relationship and he taught he can control it but he made a mistake and we broke up. i'm so sad, i missed him so much, even when i'm sleep i dream we're talking and ..., i don't know why i took it this hard, i cry all the time, my last broke up wasn't this hard for me, all i can feel right now is i missed him, his smile, his arms, his everything, what should i do to recover and avoid this missing feeling, i can't keep on like this anymore.
Maldives Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 What goes around comes around sounds like karma to me ur turn now
Altair0770 Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 Umm.... what? You miss the guy that you broke up with or this new guy?
Author madag7_m Posted June 19, 2017 Author Posted June 19, 2017 the new guy, everything went so fast with him and i missed him.
penelopeanne Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 you didn't give yourself any time to grieve that 3 year relationship and you probably think you are so heartbroken off of this fling but it's probably over your ex, and feelings around that. 2
Altair0770 Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 Sounds more like lust than loving him. You'll get over it when someone new starts sweet talking you. 1
SevenCity Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 i don't believe in karma. But yet, there it is. It sounds like you broke your ex'es heart when you dumped him and now you are feeling a fraction of what he went through. In fairness, you could have been completely justified breaking up with your ex but sounds like you moved on quickly and therefore had lost feelings way before you told him about it. Now you met someone you liked and they used you for sex. It sucks but happens a lot. Bottom line is you had stronger feelings for the new guy did for you and he ended it which hurts more than being the dumper. 2
broken2smallpieces Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 Please take a moment to heal. You really need to learn to love yourself. You are worth it. If the guy saw the potential with you then he will always be there for you. Since he did not, he is not worth your time. I am going through a breakup, but I met some cool people through social club and etc. Please go out of your ways and heal your heart first. Only time can tell whether or not, you two are meant to be together 1
preraph Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 I think you moved from the first to the second and didn't mourn the first one or at least didn't have to deal with the "loss of hope" aspect. And now you're kind of dealing with it all. 1
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