BusyBD Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 My boyfriend of 2 months just broke up with me and we've been on NC for 1 week now. here's my story. We started dating 2 months ago. Everything went well. The Honeymoon stage..We went out a lot, he told me he really likes me and vice versa, we spend time everyday since he also picks me up from work. We told each other compliments randomly most of the time, he included me in his future plans cause he thinks we can both do it. He said he's comfortable being with me and he doesn't want it to change. Then weeks passed he started having problems with work, money, and his closest relative. He started acting distant. Texts and calls less, less time together, blowing off our plans, and he was always tired. I know he's so stressed with work, he's been telling me about it almost everday. I confronted him about being cold. And he told me he's just going through a lot and has nothing to do with me. He's been emphasizing the need to save money rather spending it on unnecessary things. We havent went out for 2 weeks but we still see each other almost everyday cause he picks me up from work. Then our last week of being "together", he had a lot of problems. He had to give money to his relative, he had to get his car fixed twice, and he lost his job. He just hit rock bottom. All of these happened in a week! Also, I noticed he has been avoiding me. He hasn't been talking to me that much too. When I learned he quit his job, I told him to contact me whenever he wants to talk about it. I have been inviting him to have lunch with me just so I can see him. But he always say no. He kept telling me he cant see me today, tomorrow for sure. He said that throughout the week but he still didnt show up. And he stopped picking me up from work too. When I asked where he was, he told me he's on his way to his relative or friend's house.. So i was upset because he turns me down but goes all the way to his friend's house. He was also upset because i have been nagging him. I apologized and he also said he was sorry. He was just too stressed out with all the things happening to him right now. I asked if we're okay he said we were. He was acting sweet again, called me many times that day and told me what really happened to him, with his relative, and why he quit work. But the next day, he barely talked to me. He was the complete opposite of what he was the previous day. So I didnt bother disturbing him cause maybe he has a lot going through his mind. And he was with his friend that time too. So it was okay but I already felt something was off. Didn't text him the following day good morning which I usually do everyday. I was waiting for him to text me first. Then he texted me he thought I was mad at him. When I said i wasnt mad, he messaged me that we shouldnt talk anymore and I deserve someone better. He's going through a rough time right now and just wants to be alone. Then right after sending me that msg, he blocked me from his phone so for sure he hasnt even read my response. It's been a week now of no contact. I haven't contacted him since and I dont know if he still blocked my number. he hasnt deleted me off his facebook though which he usually does with his exes who he said used and hurt him so he blocked them from his phone and facebook. I can always see him online on facebook, i wanna msg him so bad but i just cant do it. I know I was acting too needy and clingy during his rock bottom week. I was just trying to comfort him. Will he come back? If he knows I deserve better, why can't he work hard and be that person for me. My friends telling me he was just using it as an excuse to end things, he's not really into me, and doesn't see a future with me. Or maybe he lost interest in me? What do you think? Im so sad right now. I really wanna talk to him and hopefully get him back.
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