dp97 Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 Hey guys, I am new here and would like to tell you my story. You see, I have always been sort of a fxkboy and never actually cared about how the girls I hanged out with felt. This changed last year in April when I met my girlfriend, she was different. The both of us had seen other people before we officially came together and it all started with me wanting to just have fun with her. So, we had been together for 7 months and one thing I can say is that our relationship always has been 100% loyal. However, we broke up last December and it was supposed to stay that way forever. Now the thing is, she had sort of a boyfriend months before she met me, but he never really forgot about her. Obviously, he took advantage of our break up and 3 weeks later they started to get closer. After I found out about it, I confronted her and I was really devastated at the time. I just didn't know how I was going to overcome this by myself while she already had someone new just after a few weeks. Although heartbroken, I felt like revenge but I just couldn't be anymore with someone besides her. However, we both noticed that we still loved each other and decided to try again. It was beautiful while it lasted. We even went on a trip for our first anniversary. But lately, all we do is fight and it's most caused by her kind of selfish, childish behaviour... I can't even study in peace sometimes, because she keeps spamming me even though she knows studying is important for me... We decided to make a little pause last thursday, two days ago. We shouldn't talk to each other until thursday. The problem is, I feel like it's going to happen again (break-up) and she'll end up with that douchebag again. I think I'll end up broken again and it scares me because I know she'll be the first one having someone new. I just can't imagine my life with a girl that is not her. Either way, thanks a lot if you read this and I hope someone understands how I feel and could give me some advice. Thank you
d0nnivain Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 You don't want her but you don't want him to have her either. Sorry. Not your call. Break ups suck but sometimes when you grow apart they are inevitable. I ended a 10+ year relationship & I was convinced the guy I was leaving was going to end up dating (or at least having sex with) a woman I hate. It ate me up inside. I was like "anybody but her!" In the end I knew I couldn't stay in the dysfunctional relationship even if it meant he was going to go to her for comfort. I have no idea if he ever got with that women. I do know he has a nice GF now & I'm happily married. You have to do what's best for you. If she's interfering with your studies, she is not what's best for you.
Maldives Posted June 18, 2017 Posted June 18, 2017 Sounds like a lot of pressure on u. She needs men to fill in the in between times. Just like my ex. Ask yourself, do u really want a woman wth such a low self opinion of herself she needs a constant influx of men to boost her Petty ego? Do ureself a favour and relieve ureself of such a im gonna say - weak minded woman. Not healthy dude for u and not a healthy woman
Been Posted June 18, 2017 Posted June 18, 2017 She is stuck on him. Been there done that and you don't won't to do it. When she gets mad at him she leaves him and there you are waiting to take her back. When she gets mad at you she runs to him. She only loves HERSELF. Believe me when I tell you to RUN away not walk from her. You'll save yourself the headache.
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