reozeno Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 Hiya guys. Im having a problem recently with my gf. In short, she suddenly voice out that she's boring with our conversation. Specifically, our conversation. We didnt live nearby so we most converse through text n phone call.She said we never talked anything overly funny that make her burst laughing.She even said, she couldnt imagine future in that state. I do make joke sometimes, but its nt overly funny or anything. by nature, im nt what you said Joker. I am not. I told her dat too. but offer discussion to fix it. She ignore it n now, she wants to time off for few days. To think whats up with her. Here's the question, should i break up with her? Truthfully, i just feel the real problem is the affection has lowered. Because we have get into some arguements before, but manage to fixed our relationship(causing several time off) which imo has cause some divide. Suddenly boring issue just pop out of nowhere. I love her and want to be with her, but i dont think i cn be more funny than what i am. I see it in a way to tell me she didnt love me anymore. Again, should we break up?
todreaminblue Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 (edited) is she funny does she crack jokes?..if she is a funny person of the biggest killer of funny is to put someone under pressure to be funny..it happens or it doesnt.....and its funny when it does happen..but you dont force people to be funny.or tell them they are not.......you let it happen and enjoy it when it does..or otherwise its just crickets my friend...just crickets......she doesnt sound funny herself....she sounds like ...crickets..drop her....let her hear crickets when she sends you a text next....answer her with one word.....write the word crickets...in capital letters.........and the next day..text..." that was my funny hahahahahah ahem".......smilin.....be you..funny will come....when you feel funny/..find another gf..deb Edited June 17, 2017 by todreaminblue
Author reozeno Posted June 17, 2017 Author Posted June 17, 2017 She's not funny or what i would say a joker but i find it odd for asking someone to be funny. To me its just an excuse for saying i dn like you anymore.
todreaminblue Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 She's not funny or what i would say a joker but i find it odd for asking someone to be funny. To me its just an excuse for saying i dn like you anymore. its a silly thing to say...not very clever and quite boring dont you think....
Author reozeno Posted June 17, 2017 Author Posted June 17, 2017 its a silly thing to say...not very clever and quite boring dont you think.... Yea. like you said, you cant make people become funyy haha. I am gonna send her some crickets. hahaha 1
elaine567 Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 YOU don't live close by so you need to maintain your relationship by text/calls and that is frequently difficult to do, as a lot of our communication and connection with one another is by body language, gestures, touch, looks and smiles. Sometimes the funniest things, all start with a sly smile or a raise of the eyebrows or a roll of the eyes or a nudge in the ribs and that is obviously not happening here. I think the most revealing thing she said is that she doesn't see a future with you and I don't think you should ignore that. 1
Author reozeno Posted June 17, 2017 Author Posted June 17, 2017 YOU don't live close by so you need to maintain your relationship by text/calls and that is frequently difficult to do, as a lot of our communication and connection with one another is by body language, gestures, touch, looks and smiles. Sometimes the funniest things, all start with a sly smile or a raise of the eyebrows or a roll of the eyes or a nudge in the ribs and that is obviously not happening here. I think the most revealing thing she said is that she doesn't see a future with you and I don't think you should ignore that. True. i agree. But i try my best to keep us close. but if she's unhappy i think it's over. 1
Maggie4 Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 You 're right, the not funny criticism is just her way of saying she doesn't even enjoy the interactions anymore, so there's nothing left. It's not as if you used to be funny. 1
smackie9 Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 This relationship has ran it's course and it's no one's fault, these things happen, it's time to move on 1
amaysngrace Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 Different people find different things funny. I sometimes say just random ordinary things and people will laugh or be like "that's funny" and I honestly don't know why that's their reactions. So maybe she just has a different sense of humor than you do. If so ask who her favorite comedian is and get tickets to a show. Maybe you'll understand her humor a little better that way. 1
TheAntiHero Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 Why does it always have to be the guy doing the work in the relationship. What is she offering exactly? As for where this relationship is going?...nowhere.
amaysngrace Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 Why does it always have to be the guy doing the work in the relationship. It's called the Power of the P***y 1
coolheadal Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 Hiya guys. Im having a problem recently with my gf. In short, she suddenly voice out that she's boring with our conversation. Specifically, our conversation. We didnt live nearby so we most converse through text n phone call.She said we never talked anything overly funny that make her burst laughing.She even said, she couldnt imagine future in that state. I do make joke sometimes, but its nt overly funny or anything. by nature, im nt what you said Joker. I am not. I told her dat too. but offer discussion to fix it. She ignore it n now, she wants to time off for few days. To think whats up with her. Here's the question, should i break up with her? Truthfully, i just feel the real problem is the affection has lowered. Because we have get into some arguements before, but manage to fixed our relationship(causing several time off) which imo has cause some divide. Suddenly boring issue just pop out of nowhere. I love her and want to be with her, but i dont think i cn be more funny than what i am. I see it in a way to tell me she didnt love me anymore. Again, should we break up? Break-up and move on mate not much left you can do. If she said she was unhappy then you would know it's over! But she said it was boring even worst excuse. If she said you could do better than her wow really!
todreaminblue Posted June 17, 2017 Posted June 17, 2017 as another poster suggested there are different forms of humor....and you can be funny just not her type of funny...find your own funny anyway...and this girl wasnt right for you.....she wasnt interested and she was mean getting out of seeing you ....blaming it on you ...when you just werent right for her.... ....so just find someone who likes being with you and who is right for you and you right for them........it is a whole more fun that way..this post is going to take a while to show up.....i am being moderated so ...it will be a delayed post.......so i hope you feel a little better now.... .best wishes..deb
kendahke Posted June 18, 2017 Posted June 18, 2017 Yes. It sounds like you two have grown apart since you don't live near each other. It's hard to keep LDR's unless you're both on the same page. 1
Author reozeno Posted June 19, 2017 Author Posted June 19, 2017 Hiya guys. thanks for the replies. appreciate it. i just want to tell you guys, we have broke up. I contacted her back and told her what i feel but she actually said she doesn't know what she feels about me as she feels i-am-not-funny thingy is huge for her. I asked if she still loves me, she actually having hard time answering it and said she actually couldn't give an answer she actually accessing me whether i good enough or not. therefore i pull the trigger. it simply unacceptable for me to be judged and i simply couldn't be in a relationship with the girl who don't love me. at least wholly. So i have to move on on my own terms. even it hurts me. Again thank you guys for the response.
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