tacoman Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 okay to make a long story short. a while ago (like 5- 6.5 years ago) i fell totally in love with this girl at the end of highschool. We hung out 7 days a week for over a year and loved it. But we were both scared and confused about what the other wanted and we never pursued anything beyond an emotional level. Another friend in the whole group ended up asking me out (essentially my first girlfriend) i thought the other girl never felt the same way, so i went out with the new girl. The other girl freaked out and basically went on a bizzare spiral down (ran away to europe for 5 years,etc)... essentially because of my new girlfriend not wanting me to hang out with the other girl (because she knew i had a crush on her) we drifted apart and had a bit of a falling out and really have only spoken maybe 3-5 times in 5 years. We were each others best friends. Over a year later the other girl was still obviously holind on to saomething,etc...and to be honest i never let her out of my mind over the course of dating my girlfriend. I recently found out last year that the crush from highschool actually felt the same about me the whole time. But i was still with my girlfriend and she was still in europe. Well 4 months ago my girlfriend of 5 years dumped me and hooked up with a guy from work a week later. I loved her very much and thought we were going to get married. Well the last week or so this old crush has been really on my mind. so i decided to go see her mom to find out what her deal was. Her mom and everyone in her life was very happy to see me after 5 years. So i am awaiting her email address. but i also learned that for the first time in over a couple years, this crush is now coming home in like 4 weeks for a "prolonged amount of time"....this blew my mind and i hope it is a sign of fate. I still love her very much in a strange way. What can i do? i dont want to just be like hi, blew each other off for 5 years want to go out. I am not sure if she would even feel anything for me at this point. Thus far i have not been told she is seeing anyone. and she has been country hopping for some time and coming back alone, soooo. what the hell do i do and not do in this situation?
laRubiaBonita Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 knowing Mothers, i would say she knows you are asking about her. remember that you arre both older now, and things have changed. That said, go out, have fun!
Bethiepooh Posted August 8, 2005 Posted August 8, 2005 Don't stress or analyze too much when you do see her again. Be yourself, that is who she dated before. You have both grown up (at least I hope you have), which is wonderful. That will draw you closer together, even as friends. Just give her a huge hug and let her know that you are glad to see her.
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