26en26en Posted June 16, 2017 Posted June 16, 2017 This is gonna be a long one so buckle up. First of all here's the situation, I skipped 2 years of high school to enter college early. As you might have guessed I was the youngest in my faculty. One day, during my 2nd year this girl started to pat my head. Not long after that I changed seats from my usual seat, only to have her come sit next to me. According to my friends, that has always been her seat, so I didn't think much of it. She would pat my head every time we meet and very often during the lecture. One of the first conversation we had was about past relationships, so I started to think that she might be interested in me. But then she later on compared me to a dog, so I figured that she like me in a big sister kind of way. My thoughts were further supported when my friend (who is kind of a gossip king, if that's even a thing) teased her about a senior she is interested in, to which she seemingly admit. I noticed she patted my head less often, although she still did from time to time. A couple of months went by and our faculty had a dinner event. After the event, she offered to drop me off at a station since she drove to the event. She kept saying that her driving skills isn't that good. Here's the part I'm confused about; during the ride, she was seemed to be kind of nervous. For example, she forgot to switch gears pressed the wrong thing etc. I think she thought I was feeling nervous after seeing her fumble around or something, cause she placed her hand on my chest to asking if I'm nervous and said that my heartbeat was really fast. I just laughed it off as a joke, but throughout the ride she constantly pats my head and even touched my face a couple of times. So I'm quite confused here, does she like me only in a brother-sister way or what? I think I'm thinking too much here but I just wanted it off my chest. What do you guys think?
d0nnivain Posted June 16, 2017 Posted June 16, 2017 I think she's a bad driver & your presence made her more nervous because she likes you. Try asking her on a date. 2
smackie9 Posted June 16, 2017 Posted June 16, 2017 Next time she pats you on the head, grab her hand and kiss it. 3
Shanex Posted June 16, 2017 Posted June 16, 2017 Next time she pats you on the head, grab her hand and kiss it. ... because a bold move from you is what this girl is waiting for. 1
preraph Posted June 16, 2017 Posted June 16, 2017 I just see this as her treating you like a little boy because you're younger than the rest. Head patting is not generally flirtation. I make nothing of the driving incident. I mean, you got nothing to lose by asking her out but make sure she knows it's a date and not just as friends or things will just get awkward. Better she says no to a real date than has to say no later when you try something.
todreaminblue Posted June 16, 2017 Posted June 16, 2017 i would do the hand on heart thing only with a guy i had an interest in and was pretty sure with intuition he liked me too.....its a bold move...its intimate touch..... her nerves before could have been because she planned to see if your heart was as racing as hers was by getting up close and personal.....what else is placing your hand overt someones heart than that....its a bold move deserves a bold response as other posters have suggested...it is bold....respond in kind......i would avoid her chest....go for the face with a gentle touch when you get a chance too..in private....respectfully...ask her out...a soft touch and a i was thinking we should go out on a date when are you free.........deb..... 1
Author 26en26en Posted June 17, 2017 Author Posted June 17, 2017 My worry is that if I ask her on a date she'll refuse and try to act differently than she used to since she would think that how she acted before was suggesting that she was interested.
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