empty19 Posted June 16, 2017 Posted June 16, 2017 (edited) Guys, this is LDR broken up case and I am bad at english. I was original girl from Vietnam. I caught a sickness and I can't go out social much. so even though I dont have trouble at all (well, still others chased me if I go out) but I simply not feel happy much. I chose LDR 1 time, in the end I loved him a bit then be hurted for 4 months. So he came on 13/2 or 14, asked tobe my bf. Due to the fact that I was lonely enough, feeling hurt enough and got bored, I said "yes, short term only". It s started by nothing but gradually he caught my attentions and I fall for him. wew, we did lot, if you cant say crazy. We've been like 24/7, even sleep we have to see each other. I and him would call all day, all night.. still our phone die cause of low bat. We eat, we played silly games, we jk, trapped each other, teasing, whispering. We sang, we danced, we had fun. We chatted, talked, and I would do lot for him sometimes... As I could get up early just to w8 him up or silently look at him sleeping and feel peace. and yes, we had some... intimate. one day I was on my bath suit etc.. and I made him out of control a bit... dunno why. and the day he asked me to be his real gf, he also wanted to see my all body. in brief, yes, we did not control things on that vid chat much. But me still have boundaries and that is totally not cam chat they usually spent for days. He gradually introduced me to family members (added them to my fb, pm them ask them to talk to me).. I 've played w his cousin, his friends. and he was continuously happy when gradually his frens and family accepted me. also his sisters and brothers (he had no mother). He asked me to come to Philips on December, marry him. but then we got trouble... hmp. I felt my love for him down a bit. we got arguments. then then suddenly one day he disappeared. then follow by days of busy work and lies. sometimes he back to me ... borrowing my money for dad surgery (his cousin said none surgery) . His friend said saw him on computer but never talk to me. One day I searched his log search, wew, I saw a girl with her bf, that girl is just 18 years old. and suddenly In the blur pictures... I saw my bf fav t-shirt, so I looked back, wew, that was him. I checked, saw lot, she said "my baby". I asked him. he denied. cousin only, i love you only. etc so I contacted his friends. his cousin. her cousin. yupz and I contact her at last. Guess what.. she said this is her bf (and admit that they started 3 months after he started w me). we were talking n he jumped in... "may i ask.. its me... still you love me, cause im still in love w you?" I was surprised but i then ans yes. (habit and still hurt) follow that is... why you give up etc... will you come this december. And that girl, lol, she was just speechless. at last I said you guys should be together. I quit. but she keep asking if I love him and will I stop contact him. I said I could stop. but if he does I could not resist, cause im weak and we are both in love. She did not let it go. She spammed the message by kissing pictures of her n him. (around 4 pics) and I got mad. I sent what I had on his fb (kissing pics, lies about cousin, borrowing my money to buy her stuff, the way he jumped in her chat said he love me and asked me to come... also... some of my friends and his friends telling me he used to flirt lot of boys and girls online. seduced them to get sex - money in term of love. but some friends actually tot he loves me due to what we did on those months.) so I hacked the fb also. he cant never take it off. etc. I won. She is happily from now, posting sweet message alone. guys, still hurt lot.. love turned to be a cheated plan... could you feel? some normal questions popped up. does he love me? does he love her? do I love him... help Edited June 16, 2017 by empty19
theloner Posted June 16, 2017 Posted June 16, 2017 He cheated on you. The best thing to do is go straight no contact. And disappear like a ghost. 1
Maldives Posted June 16, 2017 Posted June 16, 2017 I know it's hard and I know ur not strong at the moment I know I been there 8n a similar situation . Cheaters always have the upper hand because they have another party. As hard as it is walk away do everything u can to let him go as painful as it is. If u stay wth him I believe he will keep seeing the other girl and ur both gonna get hurt. If she's silly enough to keep him let her have him u deserve much better than this. Realise even though it's painful and hard letting him go, it'll be even harder staying wth him. Ur gonna get hurt over and over again wth this guy. Be strong and let him go. 1
Author empty19 Posted June 16, 2017 Author Posted June 16, 2017 He cheated on you. The best thing to do is go straight no contact. And disappear like a ghost. umm, trying to do now...
Author empty19 Posted June 16, 2017 Author Posted June 16, 2017 I know it's hard and I know ur not strong at the moment I know I been there 8n a similar situation . Cheaters always have the upper hand because they have another party. As hard as it is walk away do everything u can to let him go as painful as it is. If u stay wth him I believe he will keep seeing the other girl and ur both gonna get hurt. If she's silly enough to keep him let her have him u deserve much better than this. Realise even though it's painful and hard letting him go, it'll be even harder staying wth him. Ur gonna get hurt over and over again wth this guy. Be strong and let him go. hmmp, I tried my best to be nice and let go cause I've known how it feel to be broken when you are too young. but just i cant stand the fact that she judging me based on the intimated we both had before.. she claimed that I was too much on smexy stuff and that s why she is... ugh... plus plus++. ya. so young, not even understand what is love at the age. silly, exactly what you said. I've known he could hurt me more after months with him. Lies are all he had and his habits always. Maybe you are right that losing that person is lucky to me, that I could let go and get better soon. btw ty to your comments, I felt much better naw
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