Girls give me a lot more attention when I became asexual?

[whitewolf80]

I don't know if I'm asexual for sure or if its just a phase. But I've been owning it for the last couple weeks. But I notice I get a lot more attention from girls now all of a sudden. It's like when I wanted to pick up girls not so much. But now that I don't care and don't want, I'm suddenly more attractive? Maybe its just random and nothing. But I find it weird like what the hell.

[GunslingerRoland]

Asexual is trendy. Women are drawn to stuff like that.

 

Women also like a challenge. Hence why so many are obsessed with gay guys.

[knabe]

Two things:

 

1. Since you are asexual they aren't wondering if you just want to get in their pants

 

2. Since you aren't desperate, you give off confidence

[d0nnivain]

I doubt you are asexual. If you were, you would not notice girls noticing you.

 

What you are is more relaxed & chill. You have stopped giving off a desperate vibe. Now you seem confident & that is attractive.

[Ami1uwant]

I dont think you are asexual....

 

Yes its true what you are experiencing. If you dont care or not paying any attention to looking for a relationship they show up. When you look they run.

 

If you carry yourself as gay or asexual women may approach you thinking you arent trying to date them.

 

From my experience in random meetings I have the best luck with women when something sparks a conversation between us than say if I try to hit on her.

[SammySammy]

Trying too hard is needy. And creepy. Both are not attractive.

 

I'm willing to bet you get more interest because you lost the neediness. Not that you're asexual.

[Bastile]

Women can be like cats. They sometimes go to the person with the least interest in the room for some attention.

 

You'll find that things get complicated when you reciprocate the interest based on that dynamic. Being aloof only gets you so far.

 

You should reconsider the “asexual” thing, imo. That seems extreme to me. Work on being social instead, and less outcome dependant.

[telemakus]

I think that rather than these women suddenly being more interested, it's your perception of them has changed. I know that when I'm feeling more confident I suddenly feel like every woman has the hots for me and just any rational assessment of the situation would suggest they really don't.

[elaine567]

Are you telling those girls that you are now asexual?

[whitewolf80]

no. just off body language, vibes, eye contact and flirting