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Hi everyone!

 

For the past 6 months I've been single after a long-distance thing. I've dated two guys but I don't feel anything. The first one is a womanizer, so there's nothing there, but the second guy is very sweet and good. However, I am not in the mood for love, feelings, phonecalls, messages (I've had enough of these in the long-distance relationship) and now he keeps texting me trying to get closer.

 

Do you think that I should give him a second chance and go out again? If I don't feel something from the very first moment, then I usually don't feel anything at all. I feel emotionally numb. It's like I don't have feelings or love to give and I don't want to receive them either. :(

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You have to rediscover your equilibrium regarding dating. A second date when you are not in the mood only gives the poor guy false hope. Better a single swift, no thank you.

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Hi everyone!

 

For the past 6 months I've been single after a long-distance thing. I've dated two guys but I don't feel anything. The first one is a womanizer, so there's nothing there, but the second guy is very sweet and good. However, I am not in the mood for love, feelings, phonecalls, messages (I've had enough of these in the long-distance relationship) and now he keeps texting me trying to get closer.

 

Do you think that I should give him a second chance and go out again? If I don't feel something from the very first moment, then I usually don't feel anything at all. I feel emotionally numb. It's like I don't have feelings or love to give and I don't want to receive them either. :(

 

No. That would be cruel for you to lead him on by giving him the impression that you're open to his advances.

 

Tell him what you said here. Let him know he's wasting his time and energy.

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