Why do we cling onto relationships even though you know you it is irreparable?

[Chilli]

Chilli,

That is pretty much where I am at too. Even though we had our "life" issues (aka responsibilities etc), our personal and emotional relationship was very close.

Neither one of us was ever mean to the other and overall we had a lot of love between us.

 

When I started this post, I was in a place of seeing all of our differences. But through internal self discovery, I have found is that I/we stopped doing things for the other out of love. We got too focused on your own needs, hence the differences became an issue.

 

 

""" l'm really glad you guys realized that before it's too late , like what happened in my marriage but too late. lt's so so easy to forget later on isn't it and just get into some rut or life or ourselves pr taking for granted.

 

 

Do you think your ex will come back and want to try again? If she did, would you take her back?

 

 

"""" l think she would but it was actually me that sorta finished things.

We were 2/3 long distance and the one of us moving thing changed later on and well, so far we just couldn't figure a solution, maybe in more time we would've l'm just not sure.

But the bigger thing was as brilliant and fantastic , funny , everything, as she could be, she also had some sorta personality thing that was really easily set off and become nasty.

Tbh , that was the biggie.

Just couldn't find a way with that side of her so.