Just heartbroken

[SweetAngel1984]

Heartbroken & Wanting Advice

So I met my ex in 2014, he has been coming and going from my life for the past 3 years. When I met him his dad had just committed suicide and he was drinking alot and suicidal at times himself. We broke up in March 2015, he wanted to work it out till he ditched me in June 2015 for another girl. Then he came back in July and we stayed in contact till November 2015 then he blocked me and changed his number and we had no contact for 6 months then in May 2016 we got back in contact and started hanging out again and got really close we hung out the whole summer then his mom found out and he said we couldn't hang out anymore. During this time he even went as far as asking me to move to a new town with him. However even though his mom wouldn't approve he kept seeing me then the mom wrote me in Christmas threatening me with the police. I asked him about it and he said to ignore her.

 

In January he started school, and moved out of town and I thought for sure ok he would move on. Being at college, however he didn't, he kept coming home on weekends and spending time with me. We even got so close again, about a month back he wanted me to admit I was in love with him and he told me we are not together yet but will be. He wanted to get his life together. He said it gives him an ego boost though that I love him.

Anyway we have been continually hanging out till this past week, Friday night rolls around and I never heard from him but he went away camping. Then he messages me Saturday asking if I had a new boyfriend because he seen a pic of a guy on my profile and then said whatever he doesn't care.

Then yesterday he messaged me asking me if I wanted to see him and have sex and I agree then he asks for porn to be sent(he is addicted to porn) and so I start too then he says never mind, I can't go too your house anymore I am seeing someone, and I said since when and he goes now and I shouldn't sleep with you. We can't ever speak or see each other again but if you do speak to me I will call the cops on you or if you destroy my relationship. I then said well good luck to you and your girlfriend then he said she is not my *ucking girlfriend and I t hink you will do everything in your power to get me back and prevent me from being happy.

 

Do you think I will ever hear from him again? He has gone from my life like 5 times now, he acts like a narcissist. I am so heartbroken that he met a new girlfriend.

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[trailwolf]

in my opinion u should be very happy he is gone , u can do alot better than this guy !

[Redhead14]

Heartbroken & Wanting Advice

So I met my ex in 2014, he has been coming and going from my life for the past 3 years. When I met him his dad had just committed suicide and he was drinking alot and suicidal at times himself. We broke up in March 2015, he wanted to work it out till he ditched me in June 2015 for another girl. Then he came back in July and we stayed in contact till November 2015 then he blocked me and changed his number and we had no contact for 6 months then in May 2016 we got back in contact and started hanging out again and got really close we hung out the whole summer then his mom found out and he said we couldn't hang out anymore. During this time he even went as far as asking me to move to a new town with him. However even though his mom wouldn't approve he kept seeing me then the mom wrote me in Christmas threatening me with the police. I asked him about it and he said to ignore her.

 

In January he started school, and moved out of town and I thought for sure ok he would move on. Being at college, however he didn't, he kept coming home on weekends and spending time with me. We even got so close again, about a month back he wanted me to admit I was in love with him and he told me we are not together yet but will be. He wanted to get his life together. He said it gives him an ego boost though that I love him.

Anyway we have been continually hanging out till this past week, Friday night rolls around and I never heard from him but he went away camping. Then he messages me Saturday asking if I had a new boyfriend because he seen a pic of a guy on my profile and then said whatever he doesn't care.

Then yesterday he messaged me asking me if I wanted to see him and have sex and I agree then he asks for porn to be sent(he is addicted to porn) and so I start too then he says never mind, I can't go too your house anymore I am seeing someone, and I said since when and he goes now and I shouldn't sleep with you. We can't ever speak or see each other again but if you do speak to me I will call the cops on you or if you destroy my relationship. I then said well good luck to you and your girlfriend then he said she is not my *ucking girlfriend and I t hink you will do everything in your power to get me back and prevent me from being happy.

 

Do you think I will ever hear from him again? He has gone from my life like 5 times now, he acts like a narcissist. I am so heartbroken that he met a new girlfriend.

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He has gone from my life like 5 times now -- You've been a doormat long enough. Pick up the mat and close the door.

[Zahara]

Do you think I will ever hear from him again? He has gone from my life like 5 times now,

 

He's come and gone 5 times now. He probably will just like all the other times because he knows you'll be available. You've shown him you are a doormat.

 

If he does, it'll be the 6th, then the 7th, then the 8th...

 

Why do you put up with this nonsense? Don't say love.

 

he acts like a narcissist. I am so heartbroken that he met a new girlfriend.

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He acts like a narcissist. Be thankful that he's not your problem anymore.

 

Aim higher. Want better for yourself. Have healthier standards.

[spiderowl]

My, he is full of himself, isn't he? He comes in and out of your life as he pleases, taking whatever he wants. You are not a challenge to him so he will keep walking away whenever he wants. If you ignore him and stand up to him, things might change but he's not the kind of guy you want in your life. Seriously, look at his appalling behaviour.

 

He is playing the player game where he pulls you towards him and then pushes you away. He now expects you to chase him and be brokenhearted. Don't give him the satisfaction. He does not deserve your attention or your heart.