dumbblonde1222 Posted June 14, 2017 Posted June 14, 2017 i was with this guy for 3 years. we broke up a year ago. our break up was bad. i broke up with him and he stalked me for a month after begging me to come back. months later he started dating my old friend who looked like me. they broke up one night and i invited him over. he stayed over, we had sex, he went home, i never heard from him again and he got back together with that girl. a lot of fighting happened between the 3 of us and they broke up awhile ago. i tried texting him a few weeks ago asking how he was and he told me where he worked now and asked how i was. i replied and told him my friend works there too and he read my message and ignored. last night i really needed a ride to a familys house i got kicked out of my home. nobody would help. he has always been there for me, so i texted him and asked him and i said i would pay him. he said he would he just got home from work and to let him know when to come. he came and told me he didn't need money because he knows i would do the same for him. the car ride he was trying to talk to me asking what was wrong i just gave him so so answers i was upset. he also asked if the last time we texted if he ignored me or i ignored him, i told him he ignored me he apologized and said he always forgets to hit send he didn't mean to. we talked about old times. he asked why i was so fidgity. he said "are you okay are you cold hot nervous, whats wrong" i made a joke about how my friend got kidnapped the other day which was a true story, and my ex replied well then screw this ill kidnap you lol he was kidding thought. he remembered where my grandparents lived too. he said goodbye as i got out of his car, i got my bags and said thank you. then when i got in i texted him and said i couldnt thank him enough and he made my night, he replied no problem goodnight emily and thats it... its the next day and he hasn't said anything.. now what? i want this guy back.. do you think he's interested too or just being nice? what do i do now?
d0nnivain Posted June 14, 2017 Posted June 14, 2017 He's definitely being nice. Since you broke up with him, it's up to you to initiate the reconciliation conversation. Are you & your friend OK? You said she got kidnapped & that you were "kicked out" of your home.
stillafool Posted June 14, 2017 Posted June 14, 2017 Yes he is just being nice. Why did you only want him back after he started dating your friend? Also was there no one else you could have called to pick you up rather than him or was that just an excuse to see him?
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