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BS, does it matter who did the pursuing?

wanderlust12

By wanderlust12
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wanderlust12 New Member

wanderlust12

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BS, did who did the pursuing in the affair factor into your decision to reconcile?

 

Do you think MM with single OW typically do most of the pursuing?

aileD Established Member

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No it didn't factor in my choice to reconcile

 

They both pursued each other , they're both at fault.

 

People are selfish. Doesn't matter who starts it or does most of the pursuing. I don't think in the majority of cases it happens that way.

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purplesorrow Established Member

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No. It didn't matter to me that she went after him. He should have said no but he didn't. So I granted him the divorce that I felt he must have wanted since he was cheating.

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Starswillshine Established Member

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It doesn't matter who initiated anything. He always had the option to not go down the path. So it makes little difference.

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