roynatasha70 Posted June 13, 2017 Posted June 13, 2017 So there's a guy I saw at my uni last week. He's really handsome and I never saw him until last week when he was buying something in the canteen and I felt someone was looking at me and I saw him looking at me. That same day , both of us were sitting in the same area ( he was with his friend and I was with mine) and I noticed him look at me once or twice. He left with his friend a few minutes later but when he went to get his phone, our eyes met as I caught him looking over at me. I didn't see him for the next three days but yesterday I saw him and as usual he looked at me. He was doing some decorative work in the canteen and today I saw him talking with a group of people and I noticed him notice me when I passed by him in the morning and afternoon. I really like him but I'm shy to speak to him. He is definitely a PHD or MSc student but he looks much older than me though. and he isn't helping much as all he does is stare at me. Like whenever I pass by or I am near by him, he definitely gives me a look. What should I make of this? Does he find me attractive or he likes me?
preraph Posted June 13, 2017 Posted June 13, 2017 He could be flirting or he could be a real social guy who talks to everyone and is popular. But it's just silly if you don't smile real big back and say hi or wave. I mean, really, if you can't do that, he's out of your league. You've got to be able to be sociable back, whether it's friendship or flirting. So stop making excuses and show some teeth.
Author roynatasha70 Posted June 14, 2017 Author Posted June 14, 2017 He could be flirting or he could be a real social guy who talks to everyone and is popular. But it's just silly if you don't smile real big back and say hi or wave. I mean, really, if you can't do that, he's out of your league. You've got to be able to be sociable back, whether it's friendship or flirting. So stop making excuses and show some teeth. I dont know about sociable but he is very open and friendly towards the people he knows, always meeting people with a huge smile and laughing and talking. But whenever sees me, he looks a me rather intently//seriously? I had never seen him up close until today when we saw each other at the stairs and he stared right back at me in a rather piercing way (if that is how I put it ) His stare was really intense. I wanted to smile back but the way he was looking at me, I just couldn't. He came to my table today before we encountered each other at the stairs to invite me and my friends to a group protestation his class is doing and he was fine there. Like he was smiling and his look towards me was normal in front of my friends. he was sitting near his friend and once again I spotted him look once or twice. When he looks at me when both of us arent around people, he just looks at me in a rather serious and intense way. what could this mean? And i also noticed one thing. When we joined his class, I noticed he caught up with a guy friend and they talked and his guy friend looked at me once.
kate324 Posted June 14, 2017 Posted June 14, 2017 He is certainly curious about you--next time he is sitting alone at a table, you can ask to sit down and, while taking our your homework, introduce yourself. If this is maybe too nerve-racking, look at him and smile. This communicates you're open to him approaching.
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