George9 Posted June 12, 2017 Posted June 12, 2017 I have a friend who is very supportive and we are more or less like brothers. However there is one issue - I do not have a car. Still in most cases I am the one the that needs to put the effort to reach his place. Of course, in most cases he gives me a ride back home. But sometimes I just don't feel like going out of my house, and if I turn down the offer to meet up, in most cases he turns down the offer to come over to my place as well. Recently he moved even farther away from my house, so it takes almost one hour for me to take a bus to reach his place. From now on I will have to refuse his invitations almost all the time. Not because I don't want to meet him up, but due inconvenience. What are your thoughts about it and how would you handle this situations?
spiderowl Posted June 12, 2017 Posted June 12, 2017 Yes, seems fair enough to opt out if it is getting more difficult to see him. It is obviously easier for him to visit you so if he does not choose to do this, then I don't see why you should always have to do the travelling. He has moved further away so he must be aware that will make it more difficult for you. Why do you feel the need to apologise for not going to such trouble on a regular basis?
GeorgeWP93 Posted June 13, 2017 Posted June 13, 2017 (edited) i posted in the wrong thread Edited June 13, 2017 by GeorgeWP93
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