Yanago Posted June 12, 2017 Posted June 12, 2017 So recently i've started to take interest in a girl that works at my local supermarket. A while back i painted my hair and she told me it looked great on me, is this a sign that she likes me? because its already hard enough to ask someone let alone in a supermarket... I just want to make sure i have a decent chance. The past day or 2 my mind has been filled with her and i get nervous when i think about her.
CptInsano Posted June 12, 2017 Posted June 12, 2017 My recommendation is to not ask her out. She works in retail, and she would have to face you on a regular basis if she rejected you, which is awkward as heck. The fact that you thought about it for the last two days also means that you are way ahead of yourself. Please try some more smalltalk to see how interested she may be. No, a nice comment about something as obvious as dyed hair is not enough to show interest. 1
d0nnivain Posted June 12, 2017 Posted June 12, 2017 Asking somebody out at their place of work is a tricky business. It's hard to determine if they are being nice to you because it's part of their job or if they really like you. I'd go to this market more often & chat with her. Find out what she likes to do & if she has a BF. Limit yourself to 1-2 Qs per visit. Do be flirty & complimentary. After a few weeks of this if she is still happy to see you & doesn't have a BF, ask her what time she usually gets off & could you pick her up after work one day for a cup of coffee. 2
preraph Posted June 12, 2017 Posted June 12, 2017 There is no guarantee she likes you or not. Most retail places teach their employees to find stuff to compliment customers on and to be friendly. So there's no way of knowing. Next time you go in see if she remembers you and says hi no matter whether you're on her register or not.
The Urbanyst Posted June 13, 2017 Posted June 13, 2017 Don't worry about if you have a good chance or not. All that matters is you want to date her, so you need to make a move. If she isn't interested she is't interested, but at least you'll know. The best way to ask her out in that setting is to be direct. Start off with a quick casual chat like "How is your day?" and blah, blah, blah. Then ask he if she would like to grab coffee or a drink some time with you. If she says yes, ask for her number. Then leave. Asking girls out is one of the easiest things in the world to do. You just have to get comfortable with the possibility they might say no. But its not like they are the last woman on earth.
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