guild11 Posted June 11, 2017 Posted June 11, 2017 My GF of 2 years decided to break up, I asked her to give me 5 month to deal with financial issues (while living with parents) She said she cant wait that long and that she is feels very bad with herself that I "hold" her in the same place. its been 3 weeks since the break up and during this time I managed to sell few computer parts and fixed my car with the money. On the weekend I went out of town with my friend and got a sunburn. When I got back to work today (we work in the same office) she saw me and asked to join her on the break. She asked me where I was and with whom I was, later on she asked me how come that now I have money to go out of town, and what I'm planning to do when I'm having 3 days vacation next week (like how you still have money) Later she went saying that I never took her to places and made excuses every time. I asked her why she is mad about it ? is she trying to make me feel bad ? whats the point if we aren't together anymore? She said that it was in her mind and she had to say/ask.
basil67 Posted June 11, 2017 Posted June 11, 2017 You are right that this is none of her business now that she's ended it. However, the reason she's saying it is because she's in the process of moving on and is entering the 'anger' phase. At present, she's further pissed with you because you made this effort for your mates and not with her.
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