Sarah4 Posted June 11, 2017 Posted June 11, 2017 Need your advice about my situation. Though I am not even sure about if there is a situation... I met this guy online and he seemed to be into me a lot since the first time because we met 3 times the week we knew each other. I like him too and he initiated the text everyday. We dated 8 times in one month and we made out every hot in each date. Finally I decided not to wait and had sex with him at his place and slept over. I would say the sex was a little disappointing (mostly because of him) since our made out was so hot that I assumed our sex would be amazing. Then he left for business trip. He still texted me but I kind of felt he was distant. Is that because he lost interest in me or he felt awkward because of the sex? He didn't set the next date like before. It might because he is busy. He initiated all the conversation after the sex and replied me promptly most of time. I don't know what is he thinking or am I overthinking? And we are dating exclusively.
Kamille Posted June 12, 2017 Posted June 12, 2017 Is he back from his trip yet? Try not to overthink it until he comes back. It's pretty normal for contact patterns to change when people are travelling. It's possible that the only thing going on is that you miss him. Keep busy, do what you have to do to recharge. I hope things get back to normal when he gets back.
Author Sarah4 Posted June 12, 2017 Author Posted June 12, 2017 Is he back from his trip yet? Try not to overthink it until he comes back. It's pretty normal for contact patterns to change when people are travelling. It's possible that the only thing going on is that you miss him. Keep busy, do what you have to do to recharge. I hope things get back to normal when he gets back. Yes, he seems normal now. Not that distant anymore, and asked me to meet again. So I guess we are good? 1
Aquaman83 Posted June 12, 2017 Posted June 12, 2017 How long you been dating? how many dates? If it is under 3 months, it is still early to tell. If a guy likes you, he will reach out and initiate dates. When he takes you out, is it back to his place all the time? or is it an actual date? like go out and do stuff?
smackie9 Posted June 12, 2017 Posted June 12, 2017 If the sex was disappointing, why do you even bother?? 2
Aquaman83 Posted June 12, 2017 Posted June 12, 2017 If the sex was disappointing, why do you even bother?? ehhh, I have had sex with people the first time and it wasn't that great. I think by 3x time - if they are bad; they are bad. Sometimes they are just a little nervous or etc.... but then again, 9/10 of them just wasn't that good - just laid there.
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