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Is it okay for wife to visit family without me when I am from the same area?

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BluesPower Established Member

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Doesn't answer phone for hours.Thursday's on two trips mother said gone since 4.I just called at 10:30 to say good night. Said she left phone in friends car. After first trip female problems no sex. 3 days before second trip uses 3 day mOnistat.

 

What did I say boys and girls...

 

Absolutely having and affair. Probable her first love. How could you fall for this for so long?

 

Check your phone bill and read up here about what it the next thing to do.

 

For me it would be a divorce. How long has she been taking these trips???

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Something is definitely off here & it looks like an affair. I'd let her go (although I get the sense she's already there). Next weekend leave the 23 year old at home with the dog & show up to see what you find. Another option hire a local private eye.

 

 

Meanwhile get an STD test & prepare for the worst.

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Why would you allow this.

 

She is going to see her lover. That is why you are not invited.

 

Since you allowed this to go on already, I guess you are not a strong enough man to find out who she is seeing and put a stop to it.

 

You know what is going on that is why you are posting here...

 

I know that 9 out of 10 times, an affair is happening and you are right, but I promise it's not EVERY TIME. I think we need a little more information before we can say for sure!

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She will not let him go with her... There can only be one explanation for that.

 

Away from her phone for long periodsof time. And on and on.

 

alsudduth, I know that you like to think the best of people, but we all know what is going on here.

 

There is no doubt the she has a lover in her "Home Town".

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I know that 9 out of 10 times, an affair is happening and you are right, but I promise it's not EVERY TIME. I think we need a little more information before we can say for sure!

 

With OP's background story this is a ten out of ten times story.

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She said then she would stay home.I have two sons 23 and 15.What I was addressing in my original post was my step mom is like her mentor

My father is 90 and she is 30 years younger.Both are from families with no structure and second marriages. People say they have a peculiar relationship as she is gone all of the time.A few years ago they were going to visit our hometown with a male friend also going,I was off work also and not invitedm

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Acting funny since oldest sons graduation in 2013.

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She said then she would stay home.I have two sons 23 and 15.What I was addressing in my original post was my step mom is like her mentor.

 

 

My father is 90 and she is 30 years younger.Both are from families with no structure and second marriages. People say they have a peculiar relationship as she is gone all of the time. A few years ago they were going to visit our hometown with a male friend also going, I was off work also and not invited.

 

Is this your reply to what most people here have told you. Do you understand what you have been told?

 

Do you care that your wife is having an affair?

 

I am not sure I understand your response or where you are coming from???

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Married 23 years she is 43.Had supposed yeast infection for a year started using again leaving June 22.

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Is this your reply to what most people here have told you. Do you understand what you have been told?

 

Do you care that your wife is having an affair?

 

I am not sure I understand your response or where you are coming from???

 

Someone asked why dont I go.

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I can keep going and it only gets worse. Saw text a couple of years ago with exchange.Twenty blue bubbles her.Two yellow.Blue was talking about clock yellow stated wet prissy and fat ads.SHe saidbtrying to set up friends boyfriend. New Years 400 am I want you from mutual co worker

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Right phone never leaves side.

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Right more information is calling her out on it then I am bad guy.

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Never wants to talk or answer questions.

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My friend it is time for you to get off your azz and start digging into your wife's activities that she is not telling you about. First it is time for you to take a trip back home. Do not let her go with you. When you get there then start talking to everyone she knows. Ask questions. I learned long ago there is always at least one who will gladly tell you anything you want to know. Also check out these messages she is receiving. Just from what you have written here, there is enough to give you a good indication that you are being hoodwinked. Don't just sit on your hands and wonder. Get up and do something and don't tell her what you are doing. If you want answers bad enough then you will go out and find them. If you need help with ways of finding out things, just ask. There is an ocean of experience here that will gladly help you. I wish you well.

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Mostly thugs and guys with criminal records.

d0nnivain Established Member

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ezey

 

 

You know what is going on here. The more you post the more evidence there is that she's up to no good.

 

 

I'm sure you don't want to face the ugly truth but you can't go on like this.

 

 

Ask your dad what he sees & hears. Just make sure his 2nd wife, your wife's "friend" doesn't take anything out on your 90 year old father because you finally had enough nonsense.

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ezey

 

 

You know what is going on here. The more you post the more evidence there is that she's up to no good.

 

 

I'm sure you don't want to face the ugly truth but you can't go on like this.

 

 

Ask your dad what he sees & hears. Just make sure his 2nd wife, your wife's "friend" doesn't take anything out on your 90 year old father because you finally had enough nonsense.

 

Right. Their in kahoots

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Right. Their in kahoots

 

Right its being turned around because I'm mad and address it.

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Pain during sex for over a year and wondering go to doctor.

BluesPower Established Member

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Dude, you can do multiple paragraphs in the same post. Just saying.

 

You can also use longer sentences as well.

 

But here is the question... What are you going to do? Where are you at with this?

 

You have already been letting her push you around long enough. You need to take some action.

 

And based on his health, you need to protect your father as well. Your step mom is having an affair as well. You need to make sure she does not "Hurt" your father. And he has to know what is going on as well.

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Was checking pi's in hometown

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