korenna Posted June 12, 2017 Posted June 12, 2017 yeah man shes just keeping you around to comfort her had a girl do this to me when i was younger she told me she had a boyfriend and STILL continued to flirt with me afterwards for about a year straight. its ridiculous and when i started ignoring her she would get really angry with me
Author Birdman56 Posted June 12, 2017 Author Posted June 12, 2017 Why not ask her who's that guy? Because isn't that just being needy and insecure?
Author Birdman56 Posted July 16, 2017 Author Posted July 16, 2017 So I ended up breaking no contact to ask if there were feelings still there. She responded 'I don't know' and that she's really enjoying being on her own right now and hasn't done so in like 8 years. I kept it cool and just asked why she told me she loved me. She just responded 'because I did, or I thought I did. I dunno'. I felt like I needed to ask those questions to finally move on from this girl. Has anyone dealt with these responses before? What kind of answer is 'I don't know'? Should I take it personally that she'd rather be alone than with me? Is it something I did wrong? Just wanted some insight to help live and learn.
umirano Posted August 8, 2017 Posted August 8, 2017 We don't know for sure. Either she is a ****ty person, or she is depressed. Either way, she messed with your mind in a rather selfish and unsympathetic manner. It's best to go NC and move on. No, I cannot conclude that you made specific mistakes. The behavior she showed was not caused by you, all though you might have picked up on it sooner, and protected yourself better.
kgcolonel Posted August 8, 2017 Posted August 8, 2017 (edited) ten characters Edited August 8, 2017 by kgcolonel
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