GC98 Posted June 9, 2017 Posted June 9, 2017 I'm currently in a situation that has left me feeling very hurt/confused/guilty and angry. I met my ex boyfriend online about two years ago, he lives a 25 minute drive from me. We met up, didn't work out, moved on. Until he texted me a month later and we began talking again, until I had enough of him ignoring me/not putting effort to meet up. This happened another 2 times of me leaving him and then him coming back a month or so later saying he missed me. The last time he came back was when I started going out to clubs with my friends. To get to the point, he put in effort and so I decided to go for it and we became a couple. One day at the cinema however I find him explaining to a girl over text why he chose not to see her a while back. I went off on one, he talked me out of it. Later on in the relationship he's texting his dad back whilst I'm next to him and I happen to see a text to a girl with four kisses on it. Again I flip out and he tells me it was all innocent. I don't leave him. Another time he tells me I've left my makeup in his car-we meet up and he goes to give it to me and BAM it's not my makeup. Told him that and he didn't make excuses. I forgot about that one immediately for some reason. He stopped coming to see me, stopped caring about me when I was upset about being made homeless in the next month. I thought things were okay until the final few days when I could just sense the breakup happening. So we get to now, he broke up with me over social media after 6 months in the early hours of the morning of my first exam and wouldn't answer his phone to me because he was with his friends. He said he was unhappy and his parents had noticed I was unhappy with him when he wouldn't do what I wanted him to (little things like call me after work) but apparently it was always because he couldn't. I was sometimes noticeably unhappy with him but that's because now I realise I knew he was being shady (would delete messages/wouldn't answer Snapchats around me/wouldn't leave me with his phone etc)I didn't want to admit it for sakes of always being the one to start an argument. He did say I made him happy but things got on top of him. We had some good times but now everything feels grey. His friend then said he's here for me if I need him to vent but I haven't taken him up on it in case anything gets back to my ex. I was civil and said good luck with everything then went no contact like before. Haven't paid him any attention since in the last two days. I've now noticed however that he's started doing things such as liking the girls picture I caught him texting even though it Was posted a week ago and she has a boyfriend. I know that this is a tactic to make me jealous but why is he doing it? He broke up with me He made the conscious decision to leave and not the other way round So why do it? I haven't reacted in any way FYI- I don't want to give him the satisfaction.
d0nnivain Posted June 9, 2017 Posted June 9, 2017 You aren't in NC if you can see his social media. Delete him as a friend on everything. Then you won't know who he's talking to or what he's liking on line & there will be nothing for you to be jealous of.
preraph Posted June 9, 2017 Posted June 9, 2017 Block him. Stop caring about what he's doing and then he can't yank your chain. Block him from your phone and social media and get off his. He's just trying to humiliate you and punish you. Stop it by blocking him forever.
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