rickoshea_22 Posted August 4, 2005 Posted August 4, 2005 I am hoping that someone can help me with my situation. I work with a girl who is three years younger than me, and is the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen, I can’t get her out of my head and it is effecting my concentration. What makes her even more special is that she is a really cool girl; her personality is equal to her beauty. We get on great, we have a laugh and without fail each shift we get told to get back to our work. I think she likes me, and I’m hoping she likes me that way. Is there a way to notice if she is giving me any signals saying she feels the same way? I have a female cousin who we work with, who I could ask for her to test the water, to see if she would be interested without directly being informed that I like her. As I work with her, I would like to be as certain as possible that she also likes me that way. Because if I do ask her out, it could ruin our working relationship; also effect my work life as although I can handle rejection, my work colleagues constantly reminding me and taking the piss out of me would possibly eventually force me to leave if it became unbearable. What do you think I should do? In your opinion what would be the best thing to do? Thank you for your time, Best Wishes, Rick
elijahBailey Posted August 4, 2005 Posted August 4, 2005 awww, man..... do you really have to get hitched at work? A lot of us here would advice against it as well. You really do need to consider the consequence if things don't work out. But if you decide to go ahead, approach it as discretely as possible. Yeah, getting your cousin to test the waters would be a great idea. Stick your head in as late as possible. Start planning for damage control as early as possible. You don't want to screw up especially if the job's payin' you well. good luck
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