fred123 Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 What do people think about this guy? Been watch a lot of his videos. He says things like as a guy if you want a relationship and she doesnt you should conform to what she wants. He says some good things but other things i feel like we as men have to hold back our needs
Gaeta Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 He says things like as a guy if you want a relationship and she doesnt you should conform to what she wants. Of course you should conform LOL. If someone does not want a relationship with you what are your alternatives?? NONE. It's common sense if someone does not want to date you then you leave them alone. 7
d0nnivain Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 I think he's a con artist who has mastered the art of separating desperate lonely men from their money. However to the extent that guys like you can learn a little self confidence from PUA go for it. Don't use anything he says as a script / recipe but do practice being more confident. 5
Redhead14 Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 (edited) What do people think about this guy? Been watch a lot of his videos. He says things like as a guy if you want a relationship and she doesnt you should conform to what she wants. He says some good things but other things i feel like we as men have to hold back our needs No one should ever hold back on their needs PERIOD. If she doesn't want what you want you go to the next one(s) until both parties are on the same page in terms of dating goals. Forget about all that crap. It's about you and only you and everyone is different. If you try to conform to a "scripted approach", you aren't being yourself. Figure out what you want, accept nothing less and adopt a dating approach that is consistent and stick with it until it does work. Don't switch up because it doesn't seem to work. The fact is that even if you adopt someone else's ideas, you may have the same struggle anyway. It works when it works. Use common sense, confidence, respect for the other person and their wants and needs and have patience. And, guess what, you don't have to conform to what "she" wants, you need to conform to what YOU want. Edited June 8, 2017 by Redhead14 3
Author fred123 Posted June 8, 2017 Author Posted June 8, 2017 Of course you should conform LOL. If someone does not want a relationship with you what are your alternatives?? NONE. It's common sense if someone does not want to date you then you leave them alone. No you misunderstood. A guy was dating a girl for 2 months. She then said she didnt want a relationship and he did. The advice was that he should continue to date her and say that he didnt want a relationship and just wanted to have fun and hang out
GorillaTheater Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 No you misunderstood. A guy was dating a girl for 2 months. She then said she didnt want a relationship and he did. The advice was that he should continue to date her and say that he didnt want a relationship and just wanted to have fun and hang out My advice would be to find a girl who wants to have a relationship with him. I wonder how much money I could make at this. 9
smackie9 Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 Ya we do this for free.....we could make millions? 3
d0nnivain Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 Who's Corey Wayne ? He's a Life Coach who allegedly helps men score with women by advocating that they play games, like don't call; ignore what she say & go on as you (the man) like in the face of her objection; go NC to make her chase you; etc. 2
Arieswoman Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 He's a Life Coach who allegedly helps men score with women by advocating that they play games, like don't call; ignore what she say & go on as you (the man) like in the face of her objection; go NC to make her chase you; etc. And guys pay to be told this stuff? Gee whizz! 1
Gaeta Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 No you misunderstood. A guy was dating a girl for 2 months. She then said she didnt want a relationship and he did. The advice was that he should continue to date her and say that he didnt want a relationship and just wanted to have fun and hang out Why would you continue to pursue a woman that made it clear she doesn't feel that way toward you? By pretending to be a friend only when you have a different agenda behind your head is being misleading to the woman and it's bottom line lying to her. Again why would you go through all of that trouble? There are thousands of women out there to date, find one that actually is thrilled about dating you. 2
Gaeta Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 because it works duh I have been on this forum since 2014 and never came across a male poster that got a successful relationship out of it. 3
smackie9 Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 It doesn't matter. His book sells because it works. No because there is a sucker born every minute.....he's selling snake oil, doesn't mean it works because people buy into it. 6
d0nnivain Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 His book sells because desperate people will pay anything to fix their problems To me PUA is to men what silly pop psychology books like The Rules are to women. They are sound bites about being more self confident. To the extent that folks get that fundamental message all this stuff is OK. When people start thinking it's a script, problems arise. I like confident men. Most women don't care for game players & the PUA junk is about game playing. 3
Redhead14 Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 If the definition of "works" is to more or less take advantage of women who are of, let's say, lesser experience, lacking in boundaries/ability to enforce boundaries and not having a clear vision for themselves about what they want out of their dating journey's, then by all means, go to it. If that is the kind of woman a guy wants, then he's a great success! 1
coolheadal Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 What do people think about this guy? Been watch a lot of his videos. He says things like as a guy if you want a relationship and she doesnt you should conform to what she wants. He says some good things but other things i feel like we as men have to hold back our needs Well his ways and ideas are based from his own relationships with women over the years that he's been involved with. Some stories seem a little be far fetch to me. Like the one when the man who's single goes after a single mom with kids. Because Corey said that his own experience that such a relationship can work. But what he failed to say it might not works as planned. Corey is in this for the money he's making a lot to be a relationship coach. Guys need him to figure out what a woman they're dating is all about. When you date a women make sure she's really into you and not grabbing her cell phone to text or talk while she's on a date with you. Common sense would tell you that's she not into you. Really don't need Corey to tell you that. There are other videos from guys from the hood, those seem to have much better advise because they know truly how a woman things off the street. To me all of this just for entertainment. You leave from experience. Just play safe when you date that's all watch and learn. Take notes if you have too.
Gaeta Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 It works for a lot of guys. If it didn't work guys would go somewhere else You know that pancake maker they sell on infomercials? They sold thousands of them - it still doesn't work. I know I got it, and thousands of people got fooled by it like I was. Selling a lot of something does not mean it works. Again, I have not once read a guy on here talking about how he won over his gf by following this Corey guy. 1
d0nnivain Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 fgzzz Clearly you're a fan. So what is your present relationship status? 3
coolheadal Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 His book sells because it works That's a dating how to book.. In case of emergency read this before and after dating several times and just hope you know what your getting involved with by doing so.
Imajerk17 Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 (edited) I think you should go ahead and find a mentor who can help you get what you want. But, are you surprised by the responses you are getting on here OP. Look, women are attracted to leaders and not followers. So NO woman wants to be imagining her man to be getting his personality from someone else. She really does not want to be imagining that her man got his personality by downloading it from someone selling it on the Internet for 99.95USD. Edited June 8, 2017 by Imajerk17 5
CptInsano Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 No because there is a sucker born every minute.....he's selling snake oil, doesn't mean it works because people buy into it. Looked at some of his videos, and he is not even a very good presenter, and the content is absolutely trivial and has been covered many time before. If you want snake oil, I'm sure you can buy better snake oil for the money. 1
RecentChange Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 Gosh, it reminds me of these “train your horse after you watch this DVD” charlatans that are out there. You see, I train horses. I developed my skills after a life time of working with the animals, spent years under the tutelage of expert trainers, and inherently have qualities that a good trainer must. The courage and confidence of a leader, and TIMING. You may wonder what training a horse, and catching a woman’s interest have in common? Horses like women can practically smell confidence. They read it in your body language, they sense it in the way you move, the way you talk, the way you interact with them. A good trainer, like a good date is an astute reader of body language. They understand what is being said and conveyed without words. They know when to increase the pressure, and when to immediately back off. It’s a dance, its making your intentions clear, and opening a door which others want to follow through. Timing and feel, confidence, true confidence the type that omits from every pore cannot be learned through a DVD. Just like so many timid, middle aged women who buy horses, they soon find out that they are scared s**less of said horse, and then turn to DVDs to rescue the situation – they often find that despite copying the techniques, they are still left with a dangerous animal that runs roughshod over them. Because they still lack the confidence, and most importantly, they still lack timing. I don’t know how any DVD could really teach a man the timing, and feel that is needed to be successful with the opposite sex. 2
DashRiprock Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 David DeAngelo is a good source for dating information for younger men. He's not big on tricks and PUA tactics, more common sense (for most of us anyway) info on confidence, being a man, not being a wuss (HUGE) and what women are generally attracted to. He's recently gotten married and has now come out with an intimacy program (designed for those wanting or are in a LTR) for men. I read his daily email just to stay sharp on my dating game as to not get sloppy, like any good "athlete" would. Good luck. 1
Kamille Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 Where are all these women who don't want a relationship with but will gladly keep men around as a ****buddies? Seems like a huge misread of how most straight women experience sexuality. 2
Gaeta Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 Wouldn't be a woman author better equiped to teach how to understand women. Makes me laugh all those men pretending to know what we women want, what we like or don't.
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