dsprimal Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 Hi all, So I have been caught numerous times talking to multiple girls and hitting on them. She has read a convo I had with one where I asked some disgusting things. Although I have not physically cheated I still technically cheated. Even after all the warning and chances she gave me she finally respected herself and left me. We took 2 weeks off and within the first week she was already calling me back crying saying she made the wrong decision and it doesn't feel right to her. I spilled my heart out and told her I will change and that I will do everything in my power to make sure that happens. Have that be therapy or whatever I need to do to stop being so tempted from talking to other women. Since we got back together we have been great. We spent a full weekend together and had a great time. It felt fresh and new. She has been going to the gym and finding herself and feeling better about her physical appearance (which she previously was very insecure about). I'm supporting her new lifestyle and rolling with it and making sure I am being the boyfriend she deserves. But here is the catch. She has been acting too secure and less reliant on me like she used to. Which is great, this actually positive for our relationship. But it leaves me wondering if during the two week break she may have met a guy at the gym or started talking to someone and I might get payback later on? I could be projecting myself onto her but idk why she would keep coming back to me? She is 19 and im 29 btw. Thank you!
d0nnivain Posted June 8, 2017 Posted June 8, 2017 You're kidding right? You behave horribly & this dopey child keeps forgiving you but now when she's starting to be more secure, you have the audacity to feel insecure? You ought to be kissing the ground this kid walks on. You also ought to figure out what's in this for her. You turn 30 soon. At some point she's going to wake up & realize she's more mature then you are. Step up your game or prepare for her to walk. If I was talking to her I'd be telling her to RUN. 7
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