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Fresnite

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So any of you that has been a part of my situation as of late, here is an update of that girl that never replied. Until I recently sent her more texts lol this is her reply.....I altered the the spelling of profanity

 

"OK I'm going to make this clear only once. This is Marissa's uncle Joseph. If you are smart you will not text nor call this phone number one more time. She is in the f'ing hospital and I have her f'ing phone motherf'er. So I suggest you do not text or call this number one more f'ing time you got that. If I find out you do call or text I have your license plate number and your car and will be found"

 

Then I replied saying ok I just wanted to know what happened. Then she/he replied.....

 

"What the eff did I just say?! So obviously your not f'ing smart. DO NOT TEXT NOR CALL THIS NUMBER AGAIN!! LAST TIME IM SAYING IT OR THERE WILL BE PROBLEMS... GOT IT!"

 

I replied back saying I'm like the ghostbusters mother effer 'i ain't afraid of no ghost' lmao i didn't say that even though my corny self wanted to lololol. Ok wait no, i did reply back saying mother effer and I'm not intimidated or scared and did to mind his own business. Now mind you I'm not sure if its really her uncle or just her, I'm voting it's really her. But then the last reply was this.....

 

"FIRST ALL YOU ANNOYING PIECE OF poop I AM INVOLVED THATS MY F'inG NIECE YOU DUMB PIECE OF poop. AND YOU THINK YOU A MAN BECAUSE YOU DISRESPECTING MARISSA FAMILY HAHA SHE WILL CHOOSE FAMILY OVER YOU IN A HEARTBEAT SO YOU KNOW YOU DUMB MUTHA effeR AND GOOD DONT BE AFRAID TO DIE GOOD FOR YOU NO ONE SAID ANYTHING ABOUT DEATH YOU DUMB butt MUTHA effer HAHA. I EARNED RESPECT FOR 20 YEARS. YOUR NOTHING TO ME BUT A LITTLE IGNORANT eff. STOP TEXTING MY NIECE BECAUSE IF SHE DID WANT YOU BEFORE SHE AINT GONNA WANT YOU NOW AFTER SEEING YOU DISRESPECTED ME"

 

I bolded that last sentence. I find it weird if it was "him" to word or say it that way or much less include it.

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OMG.

 

 

You must have left out an awful lot for the uncle to have gotten involved in such a brutal way. You had to have done more than asked if she was OK too many times & texted her good morning.

 

 

Fresnite, please go get some counseling. If you don't you are going to end up in jail for stalking.

 

 

I hope you understand that this girl wants nothing to do with you.

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You are not telling us everything.

 

The only reason a family member would get this mad in these circumstances is if she was at hospital for trying to commit suicide because of you.

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OMG.

 

 

You must have left out an awful lot for the uncle to have gotten involved in such a brutal way. You had to have done more than asked if she was OK too many times & texted her good morning.

 

 

Fresnite, please go get some counseling. If you don't you are going to end up in jail for stalking.

 

 

I hope you understand that this girl wants nothing to do with you.

 

I know, do you actually think its her uncle though using her phone to text me? She is Sicilian and she is the only "girl" so she is the "princess" until she has kids. She has a over protective family....

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You are not telling us everything.

 

The only reason a family member would get this mad in these circumstances is if she was at hospital for trying to commit suicide because of you.

 

Well remember when I said she yelled at me for me repeating? She had a headache and before she left she said she will probably end up in the hospital. She Didn't tell me why.... But do you guys really think those texts are true?

 

Well because I got her frustrated, get headache was from me and if she was admitted because of me. But iI like was literally not mean or a jerk. I was just persistent with a question

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d0nnivain Established Member

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I have no idea whether it's her pretending to be an uncle or an uncle. It doesn't matter. Either way, this is an extreme way to go to get rid of you. She's serious about wanting you gone. Take the hint because it's not a hint.

 

 

Nobody gets hospitalized for a headache unless that headache is the symptom of a more serious problem like a brain tumor. Again it doesn't really matter. You are some guy she went on 2 dates with. Her medical condition is none of your business. You have been told in no uncertain terms to stay away so why are you still pressing this?

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I have no idea whether it's her pretending to be an uncle or an uncle. It doesn't matter. Either way, this is an extreme way to go to get rid of you. She's serious about wanting you gone. Take the hint because it's not a hint.

 

 

Nobody gets hospitalized for a headache unless that headache is the symptom of a more serious problem like a brain tumor. Again it doesn't really matter. You are some guy she went on 2 dates with. Her medical condition is none of your business. You have been told in no uncertain terms to stay away so why are you still pressing this?

 

I'm not, just sharing the experience and just wanting to learn and understand. It's weird and different. I Am done with her. It's still a weird thing though

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She went home after your date, she complained about you to her friends or family. You kept texting and she didn't know how to get rid of you so she pretended she was an uncle or a friend is pretending to be an uncle.

 

It's easy to know if it's her. People always use the same vocabulary, make the same spelling mistakes, use same expression, always punctuate at the same wrong place, etc. I am sure you can figure out if it's her.

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Well that escalated quickly. What information are you leaving out for her to hate you this much after just meeting you?

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I'm not leaving anything out. I think she really just hated that I repeated and pushed the same subject repeatedly over and she screamed at me. Think It's really it.

 

And No I didn't pester her with texts.

 

I personally feel she just didn't want to tell me no herself so used the excuse of someone else, but I still think it was her.

 

It Could be to that she just wanted to use me for the weekend dates, i did spend $400 on her and I didn't even try to kiss her even on the first date when she told me she loves sucking penis I didn't respond. Also she told me that's why girls get with "bad guys" because they don't care about anything and will just have sex and go lol.

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The amount of LOL's you use in your posts suggests to me that you JUST DON'T GET IT. You are not taking anything seriously. How is any of this funny? Where is the humor? Whether it's her pretending to be her uncle or her actual uncle, she (someone) is TELLING you to leave her alone. You need to knock it off. No more contact. At all. Zero.Zilch.Nada.

 

You keep saying you're not blowing up her phone, but I'm wondering what your personal definition is on that, because obviously it's gotten to be too much.

 

You will never get an answer. You will never know what happened or why. Accept that and move on.

 

Honestly, how do you expect to function in life and dating when you LOL all over boundaries?

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Listen, you have a serious issue with not being able to take "no" for an answer, and you think it's cute, but it's not and it will land you in jail, or in this case, with black eyes from her uncle. Stop being a stalker pest to this woman!

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The amount of LOL's you use in your posts suggests to me that you JUST DON'T GET IT. You are not taking anything seriously. How is any of this funny? Where is the humor? Whether it's her pretending to be her uncle or her actual uncle, she (someone) is TELLING you to leave her alone. You need to knock it off. No more contact. At all. Zero.Zilch.Nada.

 

You keep saying you're not blowing up her phone, but I'm wondering what your personal definition is on that, because obviously it's gotten to be too much.

 

You will never get an answer. You will never know what happened or why. Accept that and move on.

 

Honestly, how do you expect to function in life and dating when you LOL all over boundaries?

 

Absolutely right!

The 'Until I recently sent more texts lol' bit just says it all - you have no comprehension of respect for another person's boundaries.

 

I hope at this point you will leave her be but it sounds to me like you need to look into why you don't understand 'no', 'go away' or 'stop texting'. Get some therapy so you understand it and learn to control yourself.

It's a serious and potentially dangerous thing to have social awkwardness over.

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Either case, why can't people just be forward, upfront and honest?

 

Like ok something wrong happens on the date, but you make plans for a future date, overall you like each other. If one decides I'm not into them anymore, why not just tell them? Instead of an uncle getting involved?

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I do agree on being upfront and honest even if it putts someone in a awkward position

 

But yeah I'd let this one go.

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