lolly880 Posted June 7, 2017 Posted June 7, 2017 Hello all, I'm new on here. Just wandering if anyone had any advice/opinions on my situation... So I’ve been dating a guy i met online for around a month, both our profiles were still up. I haven’t been dating anyone else and from what he told me around a week or so ago neither has he. We both have trust issues (he was cheated on by ex wife and ex girlf) and he has told me he is pretty insecure. We seem to get on really well and have a laugh when we are together, we do have a connection there and the physical sides of things is extremely good. In between dates we do chat on whatsapp/text although maybe not as much as we did when we first started seeing each other (he tends to go hot/cold at times which he has admitted) I noticed today that it appears he has blocked me on the dating site! (checked his profile another way and its still there but he’s not in my inbox/sent items etc anymore) I’m stumped by this, when chatting to a friend she said it’s probably so he can search without me seeing him online…. which is the conclusion I jumped to! But then again its not like I wasn’t aware he still goes online, and he knows i do as he has mentioned it a couple of times (in a jokey manner). I’m not sure if i should just ask him but dont want to do it over text…. I feel really angry about it actually, like its really sneaky! Not sure when this happened, we only chatted on whatsapp a little bit last night and I last saw him Saturday and we had a really good evening. I dont mean to sound overdramatic but feel pretty hurt by this. Any advice or opinions greatly appreciated.
preraph Posted June 7, 2017 Posted June 7, 2017 He's just still searching for other women and doesn't want you to be able to see. I wouldn't even mention it to him. I'd just do what he's doing and be open to dating other guys besides him. 1
Author lolly880 Posted June 7, 2017 Author Posted June 7, 2017 He's just still searching for other women and doesn't want you to be able to see. I wouldn't even mention it to him. I'd just do what he's doing and be open to dating other guys besides him. Thanks for your reply. Thing is i just dont like the fact that it comes across as sneaky....it wouldn't even have occured to me to block him! I knew he was still active on the site as was I (although dont search for other men) just be honest about it. Hes coming over later so will see how I feel if i feel the need to say something or keep quiet for now.
InvisiBlonde Posted June 13, 2017 Posted June 13, 2017 (edited) So I’ve been dating a guy i met online for around a month, both our profiles were still up. . .In between dates we do chat on whatsapp/text although maybe not as much as we did when we first started seeing each other (he tends to go hot/cold at times which he has admitted). A whole month, huh? And it's ebbing already? He told you he goes hot and cold? He blocked you? Why? Y'all didn't make any commitments to one another, did you? That is sneaky, then! What's he hiding? PS: If he's doin' stuff at this early point that's got you angry and hurt. . . "Always start as you mean to go on." Edited June 13, 2017 by InvisiBlonde Add the PS 1
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