Bluemist71 Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 my girlfriend & I have been together a little over a year. I trust her with my life & know the love we have for each other is unconditional. Here's the problem.. she stopped taking birth control about a week & a half ago. About 3 days ago she told me she was interested in someone she worked with. Not physically but she said she doesn't know what it is about him. We have been living together for about 3 months & she went back to her grandmas 2 nights ago. I told her to stop talking to him but she couldn't for some odd reason. I told her I couldn't be with her if she liked another guy and that wasn't true love but she continued to tell me she loves me. Should I give her space or drive to her grandmaws and talk to her or text her ? Needing help
d0nnivain Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 I'm not sure there is a connection between the end of the BC & the new guy. His existence doesn't bode well for your relationship. Do not just show up at grandmas & don't text her. These conversations are best done in person. Call her. Talk to her. Ask when she is coming home. 3
Gaeta Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 Why she stopped the birth control pill? She made her choice. You asked her to stop talking to him and she refused. She picked him. Tell her to come and get her stuff. Women that love their men unconditionally don't get interested by other men at work and don't keep on talking to them when it hurts their boyfriend. YOU may love her unconditionnaly but it's not her case. 1
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