mrfelt1 Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 (edited) I dated a girl for a little over six months. We started out slow but in the fourth month, she invited me to go with her to her parents house for the week. They live 7 hours away. At this same time her parents own the house that she lives in, they told her they were planning on selling the house. Her plan was to move up there if she had a job or wait another year. Well her parents changed that plan and she is now moving on a couple on months. She wants to be close to her family. The first thing that made her feel comfortable was that she knows I am planning on moving to there too for my career. Well she started to pull away once all this happened. This was two months ago. About a month ago I asked her what was up because I felt the distance. She said we were fine and that she has just putting pressure on herself to figure out if I am the one. Fast forward a month. I told her that I can tell she is not into it anymore. Should we just move on? She said would should just let the relationship end here. She says she likes me but it just haven't going anywhere. She never brought up any issue to me that needed to change. I treated her well. I took her out. I also have my own life. I have a good job and volunteer with teens and a social life outside of her. I am 35 she is 30. Edited June 6, 2017 by mrfelt1 1
Ronnys93 Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 She's just not that into you. I don't think anything happened on your part, or it could have but you shouldn't sorry about that. She's not willing to communicate and further the relationship is what she means.
Author mrfelt1 Posted June 6, 2017 Author Posted June 6, 2017 I forgot to add that about a week after we initial had the convo about what was going on in the relationship, I asked if she wanted to meet my parents. I was meeting them for mother's day dinner. She had never met them before. She had a big project for work and I told her I know she was busy so she did not have to come. My parents live about an hour away. She stated she would come if I wanted her there. I stated yes, I want you to come. She came and we had a great time. We even had one of the best and deepest convos. She admitted her biggest fear is being single her whole life. Her last a really boyfriend left her for another girl.
preraph Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 It's not that you were lacking or anything you did wrong. Each person usually has some vision of who they will end up with. Sometimes it's not realistic, but some will just keep looking or be on their own if it's not how they thought it should be. You sound like a great guy and she may have passed on you, but you're going to meet someone even better suited because you're out there doing things. Good luck. Sorry for the sadness.
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