accrd89lxi Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 My ex and I have been separated for 3 months now and broken up for 2 months. We were engaged. She hasn't asked me to get any of the things I didn't originally take. She has yet to give me back the engagement ring. Also, she asked to be release from my Verizon plan. I released her number but she has yet to switch it to her plan. Is she just being passive aggressive at this point? Is she waiting to heal and then do it? Do I have this false sense of hope?
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 Not really enough information to go on here, but all three of the things you mentioned benefit her financially, right? She still has your stuff, still has the ring, and you're still paying for her phone? Why would she rush to change any of this?
Author accrd89lxi Posted June 6, 2017 Author Posted June 6, 2017 Just figured if it would be truly over that she would act on this. Living with the constant reminder that I'm in her life. I mean we do have a 2 year old son. I think my biggest issue is imessed up when she said she needed space.
RustCohle Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 She's probably confused but you didn't give information. Who wanted the break up? Why? How did you/her react to it?
mightycpa Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 You need to get your stuff. By letting her hang onto it, you're dragging this out too long. Eventually, she'll either keep it or give it back so what are you waiting for?
Frostedflake Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 Ex's are manipulative and that's a common fact. But when you read through these forums and see what the OP is assuming and then their updates down the line you'll see the Ex is never thinking as deeply about this as you are. I agree with a former response, these things are being kept for her benefit. The longer you wait the HARDER it will be to get these things back. Do not hold off getting your things back by thinking that this is some ploy to get back together.
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