Rko28 Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 Been with my current gf 6 months, she's a great girl, as perfect as perfect can get, no drama, says how it is, dependable, trustworthy, loveable, basically just everything you want in a girlfriend and more. I have noticed however last few weeks she never says I love you 1st, in the past she has, like dropped a little text here or there or said it random times, now nothing. Not sure if it's anything to be concerned about, she is still very loveable, holds hands, cuddles, kissing and we have a very healthy sex life, when I tell her I love her she always returns it and smiles or gives a nice kiss. Probably that nasty little anxiety head appearing on my part again?
Bastile Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 Don't worry so much about whether she loves you or not. Just assume that she does, because you're awesome
mikeylo Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 If she has always said it first, maybe she is wanting you to be the first one to say now? Why dont you say first? Don't keep scores though! If you feel it, say it. The moment ego comes, downward spiral begins.
Author Rko28 Posted June 6, 2017 Author Posted June 6, 2017 She's said it 1st a few times but certainly it's me that's initiated it more. Don't worry about keeping score, it's just something I noticed, her actions certainly show to me that she loves and cares for me so much
Gaeta Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 Not sure if it's anything to be concerned about, she is still very loveable, holds hands, cuddles, kissing and we have a very healthy sex life, when I tell her I love her she always returns it and smiles or gives a nice kiss. Probably that nasty little anxiety head appearing on my part again? In bold is the important part, when you tell her she says it back. You have nothing to worry. Some people are more spontaneous with words than others. I say it first more often than my BF does and it's not a concern I understand with time couples settle in a routine that sometimes has nothing to do with early dating. If you'd like to hear it more often, tell her.
Miss Peach Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 Do you see her not too vocal about other things? For me I am that way. I will occasionally but it's not something I vocalize often. I have pushed myself more and more to say what's on my mind but when I was younger I hardly ever said anything. I tend to want to touch someone so touch, hugs, kisses, etc. is how I show I care.
Whodatdog Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 Dont worry about what she says. Read some of these threads where some guys have these psycho girlfriends, and you'll be grateful you have such a nice girlfriend. Talk is cheap. People can say anything. Its how she treats you that counts. 1
Author Rko28 Posted June 6, 2017 Author Posted June 6, 2017 Do you see her not too vocal about other things? For me I am that way. I will occasionally but it's not something I vocalize often. I have pushed myself more and more to say what's on my mind but when I was younger I hardly ever said anything. I tend to want to touch someone so touch, hugs, kisses, etc. is how I show I care. Yes quite possibly, I mean she will always tell me how she's thinking about something, we haven't really had an arguement at all yet (oh the joy of all that to come) so not sure how vocal she would get that way.
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