phoney Posted August 4, 2005 Posted August 4, 2005 She called me, I told her she should consider dating me. She said she'd mull it over. Who should make the next phone call, and when. If I call, I'd feel like I'm pestering her for a decision. But how long should it tae her to decide and call.
voter Posted August 4, 2005 Posted August 4, 2005 Her turn. How long, I don't know...soon? One thing, if you spent a nite together, even drunk, this to me makes it much easier for her to hoo up with you. That dramatic 1st, has already been done. But I'm male so I don't really know female thinking on this. Her turn to call, if she doesn't then her answer is no. ?
fundamental Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 Don't call her, let her call you. If she doesn't call you, then you know to move on. If you call her and she doesn't want to date you, she will still talk to you and act kind because a woman will never tell you that she doesn't like you--probably because she doesn't want to lose your attention. So, again....DO NOT CALL HER.
UltimateZen Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 Originally posted by phoney I told her she should consider dating me. She said she'd mull it over. Dude, don't use the word 'consider' when asking a woman out. Shows weakness. Ask her with at least a plan in mind, something like: Do you like Italian? I would love to take you to this great Italian place I know this Friday. Then if she says yes give her an exact time you will pick her up. You gave her an out and I don't blame her for mulling it over. If I were you I would wait at least 10 days, call her again and be a little more direct. Ask her in a way where she will say yes and not just mull it over.
phoney Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 If I don't give her an out and she doesn't want to date me...what happens then?
UltimateZen Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 I am not sure how long you have known her, but if you just met her I would move on. If you know her pretty well I would lay back a bit and make sure she knows you are out dating and are in demand. Then you might find that she will pursue you. Then the dance begins.
Mr.positive Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 Don't call her or call and just say hi and don't say anything about dating her just plat it cool.
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