Osamudiamen Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 My girlfriend told me dat the guy she was dating befor left her for 2 month she throught she have lost the guy so she fell in love with me nd i did not know that she have bf befor she now the guy is back my girlfriend told she dont know wat to do she told me she still love the guy nd she still love me, so i was trying my self to impress more love for her but she is confuse , last next Friday last she told me that it over between us that she want to go back to the other guy she told me she dont love me any more we did not quarrel i dont know what to do i still love her
d0nnivain Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 Unfortunately you have to let her go. At best you were a rebound. She is one of those sad souls who goes running back to the jerk who broke her heart instead of staying with a good, true guy like you. Let her go. Find a new girl who makes better decisions. 3
preraph Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 I'm sorry. She might have at least mentioned this other guy at some point if she still had feelings for him. I guess she was trying to move on but now he's pulled her back in. It probably won't last, but then now you now she is more involved with him, though she did like you a lot too. Nothing much you can do but try to go out with friends and meet new women. I'm sorry. 2
spiderowl Posted June 7, 2017 Posted June 7, 2017 (edited) Very sorry to hear what happened. It sounds like she was dumped previously and had not got over her ex. She was still emotionally attached to him. She tried dating because she thought he was gone but he is back now. Once again, she has fallen under his spell. This will likely end badly for her because if he dumped her once, he is likely to do it again. That is her problem though. Unfortunately, until she gets this other guy out of her system altogether, she would be a risky person to date. Even if she does come back to you, she could do this again unless she is over him. I am sorry you got pulled into this emotional mess. It happens to a lot of people. People call it a rebound relationship but it is more than that: she is not emotionally free to date anyone else even though she was physically free to. Do you best to get over this and do not hold out hope for her. I know it might sound impossible at the moment but loving her is not going to solve any of the issues. You need to look after yourself now, get over her and seek a girl who is emotionally free to love you. Sorry you got hurt like this. It is one of those awful things that happens when dating and so many of us have been caught in the same trap. Hugs Edited June 7, 2017 by spiderowl
Hurtingguy Posted June 7, 2017 Posted June 7, 2017 Don't even waste your time she didn't love you she just wanted to get her mind if her ex she used you and now went running back to the man she really wants to be with don't invest anymore time or feelings on someone like this brother please move on for yourself cause she will never love you and only use you as a doormat
Chi townD Posted June 7, 2017 Posted June 7, 2017 Yeah, I have to agree with everyone else. You were the rebound guy.
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