Fresnite Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 Is it possible for a girl to be into you that you are dating to purposely ignore your texts, both of you know she has time to reply and can reply but purposely doesn't. Can She be skinny this to test you? Like to see what you do or say next? Tom See if you blow her phone up?
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 No. I'm a woman and that is not a thing. I think you should text and and ask her nicely if she could just respond with a yes or a no if she's interested in pursuing things further. She'll probably answer, and when she does, respect whatever she says. 6
salparadise Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 Or she could be feigning demure, playing hard to get, expecting him to pursue and show high interest... but more likely, she's ghosting. 2
RecentChange Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 If this was the same girl who argued with you on your second date, said the date should be fun but rather she was left feeling like she had a headache. The girl that said you won't drop things and rather instead stew, ruminate, and keep bringing things up over and over..... Nope, I don't think she is playing hard to get, I think she is hoping you will stop contacting her. The times I have clicked with someone we have joked a bit how we have zero will power to not immediately respond to every text call etc. When you are smitten with someone you usually crave more of them - instead of leaving them on read 2
basil67 Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 Well, nothing is impossible. But if she is doing this on purpose, ask yourself why you'd bother chasing a woman who is playing games like this. If she's a game player in the start, she will be a game player till the end. 2
Imajerk17 Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 (edited) Is this about the girl you posted about in your previous thread? (and no I don't believe this is a "hypothetical" question) In this case: No, the girl has lost interest. She concluded (after a weekend and two dates) that the two of you do not click. This happens all the time OP and is how dating works. Sorry to pour cold water but I really think you wrote this thread in the hopes that someone would say that yes it is just a test you still have a chance, but that would only give you false hope. And, *even taken as a hypothetical question*, I suppose anything is possible, but it's really rare. You basically can take the answer as no. If a (emotionally healthy) woman likes you, she tends to make it easy for you. Edited June 5, 2017 by Imajerk17 3
todreaminblue Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 (edited) my ex and i were talking the other day about how his mobile phone is his life ....it has everything on it...all his apps for managing his life his music his contacts......and how he doesnt think he could function if it isnt in his back pocket.....mainly we got onto the subject because i hardly ever have a mobile phone,i elave ti at home.....or i borrow it to my kids and they lose it or break it....like now...i have no mobile phone my daughter broke it........he wants me to get another and im in no rush......if people want me they can ring my home phone......and talk to me....or leave a message..... what im trying to say is things happens life moves forward regardless of mobile phone usage.....and actually talking to people on the phone should come back and be the new black.....even better....talking to people in person and then all these mis-communications and could be this reason could be that reason might just be null and void that arise from disconnected and ambiguous text messages...let alone messages lost in cyber space that come through six days later......... give her a chance you dont know what is going on she could have lost her phone...missed a message.message got lost in the vortex called the internet......your message might not have been received..... whatever..........if she showed interest in you and the date you had ...ring her in a couple of days if you havent heard anything....actually voice call and set up another date and be confident in your approach.....be a man with a plan....most women find that attractive....good luck........deb Edited June 5, 2017 by todreaminblue 1
Author Fresnite Posted June 5, 2017 Author Posted June 5, 2017 Is this about the girl you posted about in your previous thread? (and no I don't believe this is a "hypothetical" question) In this case: No, the girl has lost interest. She concluded (after a weekend and two dates) that the two of you do not click. This happens all the time OP and is how dating works. Sorry to pour cold water but I really think you wrote this thread in the hopes that someone would say that yes it is just a test you still have a chance, but that would only give you false hope. And, *even taken as a hypothetical question*, I suppose anything is possible, but it's really rare. You basically can take the answer as no. If a (emotionally healthy) woman likes you, she tends to make it easy for you. If this was the same girl who argued with you on your second date, said the date should be fun but rather she was left feeling like she had a headache. The girl that said you won't drop things and rather instead stew, ruminate, and keep bringing things up over and over..... Nope, I don't think she is playing hard to get, I think she is hoping you will stop contacting her. The times I have clicked with someone we have joked a bit how we have zero will power to not immediately respond to every text call etc. When you are smitten with someone you usually crave more of them - instead of leaving them on read Two things to take note of, after the first big disagreement later on we were doing good she referred to both of us as nerds and we have a lot in common. During dinner right before the argument she said "we are alike" those exact words. After the movie she talked about we are still getting to know each other and we need to learn and listen to each other and we are different on that level. So She had a problem with me repeating something. 3 different times between our 2 dates, once on first date 2 times on second date, she referenced her best friends boyfriend and told me how he is. That when her friend is busy and doesn't text her boyfriend or if she just doesn't feel like texting he will blow up her phone and accuse her of cheating and put blame on her for not texting back, even after like 1 hour of no reply. She said he is schizophrenic or something and i said no, he sounds clingy and desperate. I'm Like those are red flags, my girl just brushed it off saying her friend just deals with it. So She brought this up 3 different times. So I'm really assuming she is trying to see about me if I'm that way. But yeah i am probably just being hopeful.
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 Two things to take note of, after the first big disagreement later on we were doing good she referred to both of us as nerds and we have a lot in common. During dinner right before the argument she said "we are alike" those exact words. After the movie she talked about we are still getting to know each other and we need to learn and listen to each other and we are different on that level. So She had a problem with me repeating something. 3 different times between our 2 dates, once on first date 2 times on second date, she referenced her best friends boyfriend and told me how he is. That when her friend is busy and doesn't text her boyfriend or if she just doesn't feel like texting he will blow up her phone and accuse her of cheating and put blame on her for not texting back, even after like 1 hour of no reply. She said he is schizophrenic or something and i said no, he sounds clingy and desperate. I'm Like those are red flags, my girl just brushed it off saying her friend just deals with it. So She brought this up 3 different times. So I'm really assuming she is trying to see about me if I'm that way. But yeah i am probably just being hopeful. Sadly, you're really over-thinking it. She's not interested. You should move on .
Author Fresnite Posted June 6, 2017 Author Posted June 6, 2017 Thank you to everyone who replied, I appreciate it very much.
Grey40 Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 Ignoring texts is pretty much the clearest sign of disinterest you can have. Think about it. Even people who are bad with their phone will eventually reply even if it takes a full day to do so. If she was into you, she might wait a while to reply so as to not seem too eager but will always respond. It sucks that people can't be upfront and say they're not interested but it's just how it is. A lot of people just dissapears hoping the person gets the hint. 1
Author Fresnite Posted June 6, 2017 Author Posted June 6, 2017 I agree. I'm just trying to think if its possible. But Why do people say one thing and mean another or do another? That's why Im held up on this and tripping over it because of what we have talked about and what she said. I can't believe after what she says her past was like and what we have done and talked about, i can't see her just ignoring me. I know where she lives and works.... like the first date picked her up at her house the same day I first contacted her. The second date, i picked her up from her work. I also met her best friend who "approved" of me and her friend even admitted to me privately that she needs a guy like me. So Unless she is a liar and manipulates and plays games then i dunno lol. She is beautifully exotic, she is mixed and omg, look wise imo she is out of my league, so maybe she knows this. But she did seem into me despite the second half of date 2 not going good.
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