Author Jemima1234 Posted June 7, 2017 Author Posted June 7, 2017 Jemima- I will give you the same advice I would give to my closest friends... if a man says he wants space- don't make him repeat it. Hold your head up high and show him that he doesn't have to ask twice. Walk away and fill your life with things that make YOU happy. Never ever chase a man or beg to be in his life- you will lose your precious power and that power is gold! Thank you you are right.
Author Jemima1234 Posted June 7, 2017 Author Posted June 7, 2017 He has sex with you, then pushes you away, but when he calls two hours later... you are happy!!! That is messed up. He is a grown man, competent enough I would hope to take care of himself. But, if you want to be his "soft place to fall" when life or his marriage gets to be too much... That is your choice. This will only end when you decide that you are worth more than this... Edited to add... I just read some of your other posts. You have really struggled with this for a long time. Counselling. No contact. It doesn't matter how badly he behaves, you always go back. I'm sorry. That is a terrible way to live your life. Your edit is totally spot on- it's a mess and a terrible way to live my life. Honestly if you met me in real life I am fairly normal with so much positive in life!!! This is a screw up enough is enough!!!
misspalmy Posted June 7, 2017 Posted June 7, 2017 walk away now, your be having with draws when hes back you show be stonger, but i know its not that easy.
Author Jemima1234 Posted June 16, 2017 Author Posted June 16, 2017 I realise I need serious help. What a mess I am in. Every time he comes to me I go running. How can i stoop so low? I need to sort this!!!!! It's a stupid crazy cycle that goes on and on.
alsudduth Posted June 16, 2017 Posted June 16, 2017 I realise I need serious help. What a mess I am in. Every time he comes to me I go running. How can i stoop so low? I need to sort this!!!!! It's a stupid crazy cycle that goes on and on. Tell his wife. That will end it quick. It will totally suck in the moment and the moments following, but eventually it will suck a little less and then a little less, and then barely at all.
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