d0nnivain Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 why do you think im way more invested Because you have been on here posting about it & fretting while it slipped her mind. You were thinking about the date & her. You weren't even on her mind. You are more invested than she appears to be at this point. I forgot things when I am depressed. Otherwise, they go in my calendar & things like dates make me happy, something to look forward to, not forget. So her excuse doesn't bode well for her being a quality person to date in the first place. Proceed with caution. I see heartbreak in your future. 1
Grey40 Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 Damn I feel you man. This has happened to me before. If a girl forgets a date she has really low interest level, if any at all. Even if she did forget, she probably wouldn't admit that to you, because it makes her look really bad. If she really was interested and legitimately forgot she would have either been honest or made Up an excuse and offer a different day to go out. How far in advance did you make the date? Never make it more than 5 days ahead (if you can) and always try to make it at a place/location where you can go in case she bails. I think I only confirmed a date like once or twice ever, never had an issue with that. Usually they text me asking if we're still on or I just go there and she shows up. If it's somewhere you have to drive to meet them and it's like 20+ min away, you can always call them and let them know you're heading out and you'll be on your way etc. and then you'll know if they're coming. I've been lucky that I have never been stood up before, but it does happen. If she was mad because you didn't confirm, then you dodged a bullet. The only way she'd be right in being mad is if you set up the date more than 5 days or more in advance, then I would definitley confirm. But 1-4 days ahead, it's not needed imo
Author thewonderyears888 Posted June 6, 2017 Author Posted June 6, 2017 well i went cringy and said abunch of **** about how "im really interested and just wanna get dinner and know one another and see if anything devolps slowly" whatever i let my emotions get ahold of me i ruined it whatever idc being single is way mor eenjoyable then this crap 1
bluefeather Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 well i went cringy and said abunch of **** about how "im really interested and just wanna get dinner and know one another and see if anything devolps slowly" whatever i let my emotions get ahold of me i ruined it whatever idc being single is way mor eenjoyable then this crap Heh, at least you admitted what you did was not the best idea. Well.. maybe you will get lucky and she'll give you another shot, but I wouldn't tell you to hold out for it. Keep looking in the meantime
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