phoenix_7 Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 Been dumped 4 months ago and i've changed my number so that i can go on LC. I kept my email open for him for official business and he reached out on april. I have been on complete NC successfully for a month but still his emails persisted even if i dont reply to him anymore. his emails are just one word terms of endearment. why does he keep on emailing? is this guilt?
Marc878 Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 Breadcrumbs maybe. If he wants you back you'll know. If this is all you're getting its not enough. Stay NC
PegNosePete Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 Just set up an email rule to send his emails straight to trash. Problem solved.
Zahara Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 Just hoping one day you'll bite the bait and maybe rope you back in for some fun. That's about it.
d0nnivain Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 NC isn't a joint decision. It's something you do for yourself. Your decision is not binding on the other person. One hopes that by not responding the other person will get the message & stop trying but they don't have to. Have the emails dump into a place you can't see them if the breadcrumbs bother you & if there is a reason you can't have them blocked. You said something about "official business" so I assume you have non romantic ties that require contact.
djung87 Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 Been dumped 4 months ago and i've changed my number so that i can go on LC. I kept my email open for him for official business and he reached out on april. I have been on complete NC successfully for a month but still his emails persisted even if i dont reply to him anymore. his emails are just one word terms of endearment. why does he keep on emailing? is this guilt? I am going through something very similar. Its tough but my suggestion is continue to ignore. The more attention or trying to understand why will only delay your healing and hurt you. Continue to ignore and if a message of substance comes up think it over then. 2
PegNosePete Posted June 6, 2017 Posted June 6, 2017 So just delete the email if it's not to do with the financial matters. It doesn't make sense to question people's motivations or waste your brain energy doing mental gymnastics trying to figure out why he's sending emails or what he's trying to achieve. Just ignore, delete and get on with your life. His motivations have no effect on your life whatsoever.
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