i live in a circle.being shy, stupid and having a crush. that's my story

[vlllaad]

So this goes like that.I know a girl.We didn't interact too much. But i guessed that She was into me.How i guessed? well, when we were going out (she, me and our friends) i noticed that in same day she changed her profile picture on fb.This happened twice.

 

If i liked a post of her, then she will upload a new pic - looking for appreciation i guess.

 

I posted a picture with my cat, she posted one too on the same day.It's silly, i know.I was an idiot not to like her pictures (cuz i never did,maybe once) but just some posts but i didn't want to look desperate...

 

Some day I asked a friend of mine, which is her cousin to give me her number.The idiot told her and since then im having a feeling that she stopped liking my posts or anything i was posting because she saw me as a coward..

 

The problem is that we dont live in the same town (we dont go to same HS anymore).I can see her just when she takes the bus home.I can ask her out then but there s this telephone number stupid problem.Should i try to explain myself?Should i find a convienent lie? Or should i ask her simple without mentioning.What if she asks me about the number?What if she is not with somebody waiting for the bus?

 

I'm too overwhelmed.I can't stop thinking about her and i find myself sighind when i see her online or posting new photos.

 

The problem gets deeper when i realise that i was always shy with girls and on top of that, the stupidest thing I EVER DONE was to send her an anonymous message (i was drunk) where i confessed my love for her.I later found out that she already knew that i asked her cousin for her number but luckily she didnt know that number.

 

I want just an answer, good or bad, but i want to do it right.I want to end my suffering even if it means that she rejects me, but i want to do ask her right.

 

By the way This story happened in december 2016.No guts to ask her anything since then.She is a shy person too and an introvert as welll.

 

Hope that i wasn't too incoherent, i'm tired and really messed up.

 

thanks

Edited June 4, 2017 by vlllaad

[d0nnivain]

It wasn't super coherent but you are in HS so you will get a pass.

 

 

If you have FB on your phone, open her page, click the phone icon & call her through FB. No number needed. You can also try sending her a private message to see if she wants to hang out.

 

 

N.B. As a HS or college student you can ask people to hang out. Adults should ask for actual dates. Asking a fellow student may spook the other person so don't be so direct.

[preraph]

Don't worry about your clumsy history and fumbling around you've done. For all she knows, you have been otherwise occupied or interested in someone else and that is why you didn't call. For all she knows you lost her number.

 

Doesn't matter and here's why:

 

No matter what she thought about that other stuff, if she is interested, she will accept your invitation. If she isn't, she won't.

 

So you need to get it over with and just write her a message or text her or call her and ask her, "Hi, would you like to go out and do something together this weekend?" Then when she writes back, ask her what day is best and then tell her a time and make arrangments to pick her up or meet, however she wants to do it.