mf0905 Posted June 4, 2017 Posted June 4, 2017 Helllooo there loves! So basically Im almost 25, I've single now for about a year and half. I was about to get married, then he cheating on me, and well, you know the story.. I'm really thankful for that now, as I feel free and back to myself. I haven't dated anyone since my ex fiance. I can say that I'm good looking, I've been on dates, conversations, phone numbers, and everything in this single period of my life but I've always say nope, I'm not into anyone, ITS REALLY REALLY HAAAAARD FOR ME to being attracted to a MAN. Its completely rare when I finally like someone, I mean I can be walking and then I can see a cute guy and been like Oh He's handsome, but when it comes to really like to meet someone its completely RARE, it just dont happen to me, for some reason. Then I've found this guy... he's probably 26-27-28-ish maybe. I met him at the bank, I was with my friend she was asking something about her account and then I saw he was staring at me, like really staring with his gorgeous eyes and intense look, and at that time we were with someone else who was assisting my friend, then he suddenly came and helped us as well, he got in the conversation, I was COMPLETELY FROOOOOOZEN, like really, I couldnt say a word, I'm freaking 25 and I felt like I was 12 years old. He made me feel like he was flirting, I mean he was assisting someone else and left that person to come to us. I read his name on his table, he knows nothing about me because I dont have an account in that bank. I was finally attracted to someone, I mean like i really want to meet him. I know this may sound crazy but I google him HAHAHA yep like I said, I feel like 12 years old. and Then found his instragram, I waited for like 3 weeks, then I request to follow him maybe with an excuse of talking like hey you just popped me out of people you may know and I thought I knew you from somewhere, I dont know theres a reason why girls don't do this kind of things HAHAHA, i've waited for 4-5 days then he accepted my follow request, he is in europe now with his friends on a trip, BUUUT, he didn't follow me back or anything so that was awkward and that stopped my plans of DM' HIM, but daamn I really want to get to know him........ What should I do? Im so NEW to this!
Jenn2 Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 I'm right there with you in the same boat. You could always use the excuse that your thinking of switching to that bank? Or message him and say hey, I thought you looked familiar! I just can't place it where we know each other from? Just keep it super casual! Don't stress. Reach out and say something and if he doesn't respond, so be it! Don't sweat it. 1
smackie9 Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 Oh good lord it's just a guy. Hi I saw you at the bank when I was with my friend, I think you are really cute here's my number if you want to get together some time. Wow it's just that frickin easy. 2
Author mf0905 Posted June 5, 2017 Author Posted June 5, 2017 I'm right there with you in the same boat. You could always use the excuse that your thinking of switching to that bank? Or message him and say hey, I thought you looked familiar! I just can't place it where we know each other from? Just keep it super casual! Don't stress. Reach out and say something and if he doesn't respond, so be it! Don't sweat it. thank you that sounds cool, i will try to do that maybe in 2 days or something so i dont look like a stalker hahaha thanks! to bad that in IG if the other person doesnt follow you, theres no notification for direct msg,
Author mf0905 Posted June 5, 2017 Author Posted June 5, 2017 Oh good lord it's just a guy. Hi I saw you at the bank when I was with my friend, I think you are really cute here's my number if you want to get together some time. Wow it's just that frickin easy. Thank you, i know its just a guy, and it sound easy but its not easy for everyone, I dont want to look like to aggresive or something like that! Or maybe I dont want someone to say no to me or Im just used to the fact that guys should ask for numbers and not me hahah
Erik30 Posted June 5, 2017 Posted June 5, 2017 thank you that sounds cool, i will try to do that maybe in 2 days or something so i dont look like a stalker hahaha thanks! to bad that in IG if the other person doesnt follow you, theres no notification for direct msg, It's funny that if a guy actually did the exact same thing you did, he probably would be viewed as a stalker. I imagine a lot of women would think it's creepy if a guy they barely know somehow found them on social media. But since you're a (cute) girl, no man will have a problem with it, really. Just send him a message
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