eddpad Posted August 3, 2005 Posted August 3, 2005 How many of you have had a second chance even after you thought it was completely over or a longshot? My ex called me today and leaves me a message telling me she has something to tell me. What were they? She moved out of her house and living with some friends from work. Getting a new job and now has to get a loan for school because her father refuses to pay for her schooling. In the window of 2 months she has broken up with me, got some tatoos, been going out late as hell and now moves out of her house. Not too mention she now has to pay for her phone bill and car insurance. She keeps telling me that our break-up was because she doesn't want to be in a relationship, just wants to be on her own and she's fine with that. She calls every once and a while because she wants to keep me around as a "friend". It just seems weird that she's been very rebellious since the break-up and I don't know what instigated it. She is rather young (19) and we went out for 4 years, maybe she's just being young and wreckless and wants to see what else is out there. I did talk to her today and told her that we couldn't be friends and she started crying. She also asks me if I'm seeing someone and if I introduced her to my parents. She tries to play it off as being mature about the whole thing but it kinda sounds obvious that she isn't and just wants to see if I'm with somebody. Maybe it's me but I've never called any ex and asked them how they were and then a few questions later ask them if they are seeing anybody.
crazy_grl Posted August 4, 2005 Posted August 4, 2005 Originally posted by eddpad It just seems weird that she's been very rebellious since the break-up and I don't know what instigated it. She is rather young (19) she's just being young and wreckless and wants to see what else is out there. She tries to play it off as being mature about the whole thing but ... she isn't You answered yourself. There doesn't need to be anything to instigate the behavior for people that age. It's just growing up. You're not going to get her back by holding on, so just let her go. Sorry. Maybe she will figure it all out and come back to you, but don't count on it.
A Fly onThe Wall Posted August 4, 2005 Posted August 4, 2005 Originally posted by eddpad In the window of 2 months she has broken up with me, got some tatoos, been going out late as hell and now moves out of her house. Not too mention she now has to pay for her phone bill and car insurance. She spreading her wings and growing up... It's the same thing ALL 19 year olds do.. I don't think she has figured out where you fit in her life now that she is maturing and she is calling you to keep base with you till she figures it out
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