Brobro Posted June 3, 2017 Posted June 3, 2017 Hello community, I am lost on this and need your help: There is this girl that I found on Facebook which I think is beautiful and seems very involved at my university which is something I appreciate. We have mutual friends which I hope it didn't make my friend request as creepy for her because we have never met and there is probably no way I'll meet her randomly on campus. So I messaged her on Facebook a while after she added me to initiate a conversation and hopefully if things would go well to arrange to meet casually and get to know each other. I have changed her name for privacy purposes but this is my message: Hey Guadalupe, what's up! Thanks for adding me. I saw that we had friends in common and you looked really involved at the university which I think is pretty cool. Her response: Hi! Thank you (a cute smiley face) Is it safe to say that her message is just a nice way of her to not talk to me? I just don't want to give the image of a creep cause I honestly am not. I just acted like this only because I will not see her anywhere randomly. She did like one of my pictures of myself on Facebook when she accepted my request. Coincidentally the photographer is one of her friends (I'm pretty sure) and I had thanked her in the description. What do I do? Thank you all.
Author Brobro Posted June 3, 2017 Author Posted June 3, 2017 I definitely know that I don't got much to go from here. I'm just confused on how to build the interest, if that is even possible. It's important to mention that based on my review of her Facebook profile, she is extremely popular. As regards to the liking of my photo, I interpreted it as being friendly or even appreciating her friend's work and nothing else and I doubt it will become a trend.
Author Brobro Posted June 3, 2017 Author Posted June 3, 2017 That's my main question: do I continue to try to make conversation or should I just wait ? Would it be too obvious if planned to do something with a mutual friend of ours if possible and invite her?
Author Brobro Posted June 3, 2017 Author Posted June 3, 2017 You don't really have enough to go on here. Her message didn't exactly send a message that she was trying to actually talk to you, but she did at least like one of your photos. If her liking your photos and posts becomes a trend for her, she is most likely interested. Otherwise, you might need to try talking to her some more. I replied without quoting, my bad.
basil67 Posted June 3, 2017 Posted June 3, 2017 I'd forget about FB interaction and get involved in one of the university things she does. 1
Author Brobro Posted June 3, 2017 Author Posted June 3, 2017 I'd forget about FB interaction and get involved in one of the university things she does. The thing is I just graduated and I think she is a year younger than me -- for sure she hasn't graduated though.
Author Brobro Posted June 3, 2017 Author Posted June 3, 2017 Building interest is tough when all you have to work with is social media. At that point, you're gonna have to grab her interest through your posts. She was interested enough to at least look over your profile and see the pic that she liked, and that is better than nothing. If she is popular and has a lot of friends on there, she might never even see anything you post. No one is going to be able to tell you with any certainty how to get this one girl to be into you. Different women respond to different things. I would suggest trying to figure her out based on her Facebook page, and then use that information to help you figure out what kind of posts you could make that might get her interest. You also said she is into the school stuff. You could maybe use that as an "in" to start up a chat with her. Maybe you need her advice on something, anything. Just need to get her talking to you and gauge her interest from there. That is interesting. Thank you firbthe reply. I have never found myself in this situation before -- usually I know the person at least minimally. It is going to be hard because I have been thinking of the sane thing: "great, she liked a picture of mine, but that may probably be just it. " But that's how I might start -- ask her about her involvement and hope it'll get me somewhere!
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