Women over 30 who play hard to get?

[The Urbanyst]

 

OP, how many dates until you think a woman should sleep with you?

 

Do you really get to know the woman first or do you want sex first?

 

Just a little confused.

 

2-6 dates is reasonable.

 

If she is very available and spends a lot of time with me, it can stretch longer. If she is always "busy" then the sex needs to happen earlier. I don't chase.

[The Urbanyst]

Sounds like she's deciding whether she's interested enough in you. Doesnt look promising.

 

We finally had sex last night.

 

Talk about timing lol.

[preraph]

I'll tell you one thing. If she'd seen this post you wrote about her disparaging women the way you did and how misguided you actually are about women, she'd never have slept with you. As soon as she gets to know the real you, she's going to run for the hills.

[mercy]

We finally had sex last night.

 

Talk about timing lol.

 

All that fretting for nothing.

 

Good things come to those that wait.

[Springsummer]

So OP thinks women should be easy, and much easier over 30...

[The Urbanyst]

I agree.

I don't like OP's attitude about women. He is full of himself. It is all about him and sex. He doesn't really care about the woman. It's just a game. Supply and demand.

 

Where is the love? It's like an exchange and bargain kind of thing.

 

SAD.

 

LOL, as if.

 

You are expecting me to care about someone out the gait before I know them well? And you expect me to care about someone who doesn't want to sleep with me? What do you think this is?

 

Caring about people isn't a choice you make. Its an emotion you either feel or you don't. Also, there is nothing wrong with loving sex.

Edited June 5, 2017 by The Urbanyst

[William]

It appears my first instinct was correct and an old-fashioned LoveShack gender war has developed. I'll close this up while I run the usual suspects. For those who remained on-topic and civil, thank you!

 

 

 

ETTA: After clean up, it looks like the OPs situation has resolved so we will leave this one closed. ~T

Edited June 5, 2017 by William