Dan1609 Posted June 3, 2017 Posted June 3, 2017 I had a girlfriend for 2 years but we broke up because of the many problems. Now I have been in other relationship for 2 months and half with a girl that is a thousands more pretty than my ex, she is also very kind and smart. Things have been great between us and we are even planning to live in Spain together for 3 months. When my ex heard about this (we have the same circle of friends) she went crazy, told me that she still loved me and wanted to tried again. Of course I do not want but she is causing me problems with my new girlfriend. What can I do if we have the same friends and why she suddenly want me?
Frostedflake Posted June 3, 2017 Posted June 3, 2017 She's not causing problems with your relationship unless you're actively engaging her and making it an issue in your relationship. Which, how could it be? You said she wants you back. But you don't want her and you think your new girl is better. Case closed. If you feel like she's overstepping, tell her. Tell her you moved on and you don't appreciate the advances she's making. Don't be cruel about it. Just be straight and forward. 4
phineas Posted June 3, 2017 Posted June 3, 2017 If your current girl knows about her and what she wants, You block her on ALL social media and on your phone and make sure she knows you are doing this. If she keeps pushing in person....well you are going to spain for 3 months right? just avoid her until then. 2
mikeylo Posted June 3, 2017 Posted June 3, 2017 It's in your power to stop her from meddling in your life. If she doesn't take the polite and firm no for an answer , then be rude. You can't feel bad about it because you told her nicely but she is asking to be told off rudely. 1
d0nnivain Posted June 3, 2017 Posted June 3, 2017 Set a clear boundary & stick to it. In no uncertain terms, preferably semi-publically with your new GF in ear shot, tell the EX that your relationship ended, that you have moved on & that she should too because while you heard her when she said she wanted to try again, you have no interest in going backwards in life. Then ignore her. Don't be impolite or mean but there is no reason to talk to her or interact with her besides a tight lipped fake smile & a nod of your head in greeting. 1
preraph Posted June 3, 2017 Posted June 3, 2017 She can only be causing a problem if you are letting her continue to contact you, so man up. She's not your mother. You don't have to do what she tells you. Block her and tell her to leave you alone. 1
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