DoubleJeopardy Posted May 31, 2017 Posted May 31, 2017 Met this woman,39, online. We chatted for a bit and texted. I was a way for the holiday but we said we'd do a first meet today. I texted her yesterday to confirm for today, she said she thinks she has a chiro apt., just not sure of the time. Will call and let you know. I said np. Silence since 5pm on Monday. She lost interest? Since I didn't hear from her today as she said, prob. back away for a bit. I was thinking maybe in a few days follow up. Or should I just forget it.
Tressugar Posted May 31, 2017 Posted May 31, 2017 It depends. Do you want to really connect with her? If so, then reach out to her in a few days. If not, on to the next. No luv lost.
Kamille Posted May 31, 2017 Posted May 31, 2017 Forget it and move on. Don't get invested in people who have only shown you they are lacking in manors. If she gets in touch, then you can proceed. 2
d0nnivain Posted May 31, 2017 Posted May 31, 2017 She's not interested. A grown woman knows what time her doctor's appointment is. Even if she had to check, had she been interested she would have gotten back to you with the time of the appointment & a suggested meeting time. She didn't. She is not going to respond more favorable a week from now. Just move on. 2
Author DoubleJeopardy Posted May 31, 2017 Author Posted May 31, 2017 This morning, I sent a a quick text, never heard from you. Are you still interested in meeting up. Replied 2 mins. later and she so most definitely want to meet. I replied back a few mins. later, sounds good, when are you available? Silence. I just do not understand why women play these games. Seems the online dating pool is just a cesspool of BS. One would not expect this from a 40 Y.O. The kicker is that she liked me online and started chatting. Just a weird experience.
coolheadal Posted May 31, 2017 Posted May 31, 2017 (edited) Met this woman,39, online. We chatted for a bit and texted. I was a way for the holiday but we said we'd do a first meet today. I texted her yesterday to confirm for today, she said she thinks she has a chiro apt., just not sure of the time. Will call and let you know. I said np. Silence since 5pm on Monday. She lost interest? Since I didn't hear from her today as she said, prob. back away for a bit. I was thinking maybe in a few days follow up. Or should I just forget it. She might be in pain still from her chiro treatment, and do you really want a woman with hip or lower back problems not easy to live with those issues. I've tried it before today I am not with her. Give her time or you can do what most would do, send a text message saying this so bluntly.. "hello there, when you think you have the time for us together, you just let me know okay, otherwise I have better things to do than waste time waiting on you all day and the results are the same a no show!" Of course if if you say it that and she comes back to with oh sorry lets do it today if that works with you or such and such date. Now if she comes back to you say forget it! So the first means she likes the fact your took charge and give her the option to answer you. Second means she wasn't interested in you at all. That point say next please... Edited May 31, 2017 by coolheadal
WhirlwindGuy Posted May 31, 2017 Posted May 31, 2017 Forget it and move on. Don't get invested in people who have only shown you they are lacking in manors. If she gets in touch, then you can proceed. Definitely this.
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