Axl88 Posted May 29, 2017 Posted May 29, 2017 Ok I am not sure where to start but here goes ….. I've been in a relationship for almost two years. We met at work and got on straight away, as time went by we began getting closer which led to us adding each other on FB, this led to messaging each other which led to talking on a daily basis. Anyway we got together and realised we had fallen in love. We went really well until a year later when she wasn't sure about us anymore and we had a break because she wanted space but she realised she did want us and we got back together. Then it happened again earlier this year when she told me loves me but not in love with me. She still wanted me around and enjoyed my company. I tried to walk away but she kept in contact and when I bumped into her at work she said she didn't want it to be over and hugged and kissed me and she was glad to see me. She kept texting but I was sure I wanted to walk away but we were due to go on holiday so we decided to carry on. We did and we got on well again and until two months later when the same sort of thing happened again. We decided to carry on again! Not long after that she moaned that I don’t spent enough time with her and she wants to see me more often (I do in my view, I live 20 miles away but even after getting home from work in the evening I drive over at night to see her several times during the week and we spend weekends together) Then recently I found out she’s been smoking weed again recently (she gave up before we met) and she starts to be grumpy with me. We didn't see each other one weekend because on the Friday she was “Busy” and the Saturday she rang and had a go at me for putting a picture she didn't like on FB, she wanted to chill on her own. I admit I did get annoyed and send a silly text saying ‘Don’t you like me anymore’ Next day she says I don’t support her and I make it about myself. I apologized and said I would in future. I wanted some space myself for a few days and she rang and accused me of avoiding her because I was driving on another road instead of going the ways she was going so we could pass each other and wave (We drive for a living) I told her I wasn't avoiding her I was using another route and she accused me of lying. A few days later she had to take a diversion and rang for help, I pulled out to look at a map to try and help but somehow they led to an argument. She ignored my calls later that day. Then the weekend just gone she has been texting and old male friend who she went to school with. They had slept together once and he declared his feelings for her before we got together. She was talking to him when we were sat down having a meal. I got annoyed and told her I thought it was rude but she just laughed it off. She talked about him quite a bit and she said they had been talking all week. Which she hasn't really done before. She used to confide in him about her ex and she said she had told him that I had annoyed her. She also deleted all the texts between them. She hasn't spoken to me, we haven’t kissed or snuggled all weekend because she said she “wasn't in the mood” we always normally do. I asked her if she still loved me and she just made a face and tapped me on the nose. She did say she loved me just before we left and we did hug. I felt like crying earlier to be honest! Help!
Grumpybutfun Posted May 31, 2017 Posted May 31, 2017 There is nothing in your post to suggest that you two are compatible or in a functional relationship. You seem to be on a very busy episode of some soap opera. Drama is never conducive to a good relationship. You want a lady who is kind, compassionate, who wants your kisses and touch, and who gives you as much as she takes. Move on, G
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