David1990 Posted May 29, 2017 Posted May 29, 2017 I've been seeing this girl for the last month and half, we saw each other every other day, contact was nearly always initiated by her. Then she was acting strange one day, and went no contact for two days, after that she messaged me saying she doesn't feel "it" with me, also I had to text her few times to get this answer. We have just exchanged few messages since, yesterday I mentioned that I'm sorry we won't fulfill some of our plans and she replied we could and offered this friday. I'm really confused now, does it mean there's still a chance? Also I'm pretty sure she's been with someone else that weekend she went no contact on me...
smackie9 Posted May 29, 2017 Posted May 29, 2017 No chance at all. She met someone else....time for you to move on. 1
Author David1990 Posted May 29, 2017 Author Posted May 29, 2017 No chance at all. She met someone else....time for you to move on. I get it, but questions is, should I see her? I've got a few questions and I want to discuss it in person...
ExpatInItaly Posted May 29, 2017 Posted May 29, 2017 I get it, but questions is, should I see her? I've got a few questions and I want to discuss it in person... Such as? I think seeing her in person will hurt. She doesn't want to continue dating and that won't change by meeting up. 1
Erik30 Posted May 29, 2017 Posted May 29, 2017 I get it, but questions is, should I see her? I've got a few questions and I want to discuss it in person... Why would you go and torture yourself on a "friend date" with her? She's probably going to cancel last minute anyway. (Or hoping you will) I think she just felt bad when you mentioned all the things you had planned 1
smackie9 Posted May 29, 2017 Posted May 29, 2017 I get it, but questions is, should I see her? I've got a few questions and I want to discuss it in person... I know what you are trying to do...to see for yourself if you might be able to change the situation. Now all you are doing is beating a dead horse....and making yourself look like a damn fool. It is what it is....she monkey branched off to some other guy, and I'm sure she will do it to him and so on. This friendship thing is a load of crap....you will barely hear from her and she will start ignoring your messages. 4
Shanex Posted May 29, 2017 Posted May 29, 2017 I know what you are trying to do...to see for yourself if you might be able to change the situation. Now all you are doing is beating a dead horse....and making yourself look like a damn fool. It is what it is....she monkey branched off to some other guy, and I'm sure she will do it to him and so on. This friendship thing is a load of crap....you will barely hear from her and she will start ignoring your messages. What usually happens, true. My observations have made me come to the conclusion that, while you're dating someone and not hearing much from the person for a couple days. If it's a woman: She met some dude and you're doomed. Don't buy the ''let's be friends''. If it's a man: He's losing interest and fading away silently as many guys do. An observation, backed up by real life experiences and LS ones so must be true. 1
d0nnivain Posted May 30, 2017 Posted May 30, 2017 2 days is not NC. NC is a healing tool. You need NC because you care & want to be with her. You are pining for something / someone you can't have. She doesn't see you in a romantic / sexual light but she likes you well enough to hang out. This is a very bad deal for you because it's just rubbing your nose in what you can't have. Talking to her won't help. She doesn't know the answers to the Qs you have. She just doesn't want to date you. No further explanation will be forthcoming Don't press for something she doesn't have the ability to give you. There is nothing you can do or change to win her back. She wants the other guy. 1
coolheadal Posted May 30, 2017 Posted May 30, 2017 I get it, but questions is, should I see her? I've got a few questions and I want to discuss it in person... Forget her and move on.. Why would you tolerate this sort of person. She told you she wasn't interested in you by saying "she wasn't feeling it with you!" Wake-up out the hope state and don't try to change her mind. Either she found other guy or just don't want to date you. Plain and simple..
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