Angel29 Posted May 29, 2017 Posted May 29, 2017 I didn't speak to my crush for a year as I was so shy. I apologised to him on Friday and he said don't worry and 3 times told me to hug him. When he hugged me he rubbed my back. He can only talk to me when he has drank, I think he is shy. On our group holiday he mentioned lots of things he remembered seeing on my Facebook posts and he noticed I was a Ramblers member and said he would like to come to my group. Last night in the pub someone had sat in his seat, he seemed annoyed and said he was driving home that night from our holiday to avoid the traffic and left. I really like him and don't know how he feels. Is he interested or just being friendly? I feel like his exit from the pub was overreacting.
smackie9 Posted May 29, 2017 Posted May 29, 2017 Why not settle this and ask him to hang out with you one on one.
d0nnivain Posted May 30, 2017 Posted May 30, 2017 It's impossible to tell from what you said. It seems to me that if he liked you he wouldn't let a little thing like somebody in "his" seat in a bar send him away from you. Until he make a definitive move, assume he's uninterested & behave accordingly. 1
preraph Posted May 30, 2017 Posted May 30, 2017 The fact he only talks when drunk just means he's not using his best judgment when drunk and ends up being more friendly than he intends to be toward you, which he later regrets. He took the first excuse to bail on you. I'm sorry. He is probably flattered and doesn't want to hurt you, but he's not really showing romantic interest best I can tell.
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