Krtk Posted May 30, 2017 Posted May 30, 2017 I agree it is, it's all I ever think about at the moment is the sutuation and him and it's doing my head in, we speak everyday all day near enough and not just about sex, I feel we have more than that, but the fact he tells me he's happy with his wife at the moment, fills me with more confusion. I know I need to walk away. But how? I see him every week. He also tells that what he wants is just sex, but I don't believe him, as I know once the sex starts more will follow surely. So what do you want, you want to live a double life to be wife for both men you don't want to hurt your husband he's already double betrayed by you and the business partner and an innocent child in this. You're affair partner clearly said he happy with his wife and just wants you for sex. and still you want more you want him to fall in love with you. you're problem is completely fixable but you don't want to fix. What if your husband came to know and wants a divorce you're AP won't leave his wife think before you act get a grip on something either fix what is broke in your relationship or leave it for good. What more will follow is heart break, betrayal, and you young daughter with lose a home with both father and mother. Talk to your husband tell him your marriage is in a cliff ready to fall in pieces or walk away cheating is never a solution.
Aqulesco Posted May 30, 2017 Posted May 30, 2017 At this stage of an affair, most MM will lie to you and tell you it is more than just sex. He's not even doing that much to hide his true intentions with you. Believe him. It is just sex and he is never going to leave his wife for you. You should read the book "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass. It has tons of information about workplace affairs. If you really do want to stop this affair, yes it is already an affair, then this book will help you. It won't be easy though. You are already pretty far down a very slippery slope. Have the intergity and get a divorce if thats what you want. Read these threads and you will find that only like one percent of relationships that started in an affair ever work. Dont do it. you will ruin your husband, the business, your child. He wants to use you like his private whore, knowing he conquered another mans wife. You will feel even more disgusted than you already do. Remember one last thing. Prisons are filled with people who committed crimes of passion
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