Midypfc Posted May 28, 2017 Posted May 28, 2017 Just over a month ago my 2 year relationship ended because of too many arguements and things done/said we shouldnt of, we didnt let the past stuff go and now its over. I love her very much and I wanted to work on it but she had enough of trying again. We had some great times together and I miss what we had so much. We liked the same music, tv shows, holiday destinations etc and we wanted the same things in the future. She also has a child who I watched grow up from 1 to 3. One of the hardest things ive ever had to do in my life was tell her child I have to leave now only to hear her say "why", I just broke down. I wish we could of worked on it but she didnt want to and she said who knows in the future, but I highly doubt she will want anything between us again. I am finding it hard to move on for various reasons, missing her being one of them. Trying to find someone you like (and they like you) and get on with so well seems impossible. I met her on a dating site and now we are both back on there, it just seems like there is no one out there. Im getting on a bit now (30) and I do want my own family before its too late. I sometimes struggle to get through the day in work and when im home im lonely and sad because I was used to sharing my life with someone. I just wish it would get better and I hope I find someone who I can share my life with again. Thanks for reading
smackie9 Posted May 28, 2017 Posted May 28, 2017 It's only been a month....stop trying to find another woman to fill the void. Let yourself heal first, and get over all those emotions. You need to keep busy with a new hobby like learning to play guitar, do volunteer work, get involved with an activity that is fulfilling, get back to socializing with friends. Maybe grab a buddy and go on a trip.
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