newbby Posted August 3, 2005 Posted August 3, 2005 it came to my notice that i am not jealous of my xmm's wife, i'm not sure if i ever was. this doesnt really make sense as i know she has his real love, and i also think she is really pretty. she seems nice, from the couple of times i have spoken to her and i wish i had become friends with her, which he ruined from the start by taking advantage when i was drunk (this is not an excuse, it is what happened). after that i felt i could not be her friend knowing what i knew, and then he started coming round and i was so depressed i just went with it. now i get angry at him that i could have been friends with her and he knew from the start that he wanted nothing serious with me and made it so that i couldnt have friendships with her or their crowd. let me straighten this for anyone who wants to jump on me and say it takes two to tango etc. i already could not be friends with her, after he took advantage knowing what i knew, i cant be devious like that. anyway, am i alone in these thoughts?
aklost101 Posted August 4, 2005 Posted August 4, 2005 i can't say i'm particularly jealous of MM's wife. lookswise, she's neither attractive nor unattractive. she has a faux tan. she has bright blue contacts. she dyes her hair. and i think she's had a lil botox. i've done none of the above, not that it makes me better... but she still has a great body (even after at least 2 kids). i think she evens out. should i be jealous? i don't think so. **if he cheats w/ you, he'll cheat on you** naw i'm not jealous.
A Fly onThe Wall Posted August 4, 2005 Posted August 4, 2005 You never got jealous because he wasn't yours to begin with.. You couldn't compete because you two were not on the same playing field.. Jealousy comes out when your insecurity kicks in that you might lose a person to another.. You couldn't lose him to her because she already had him
Zul Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 I was never jealous of her, and wished I could have been her friend in some other world. She seemed like a good mom, and a good wife, and like she took care of herself. She always looked nice, always had nice clothes and her hair and make-up done, even though they don't have a lot of money. I imagined her being a really kind and gentle person, too, someone who would make a good friend. I've always felt strange for feeling this way, but it's true. It's almost like I admired her, or maybe I just wanted to be connected to her in a more positive way.
Author newbby Posted August 5, 2005 Author Posted August 5, 2005 yes zul, i felt/feel the same. i wish i could be friends with her, perhaps it is that the connection is there in a negative way. however, i think i just see something nice in her. perhaps mm do choose ow who are similar to their wives, so its no surprise that we would see the qualities in them that we deem important too.
9Lives Posted August 8, 2005 Posted August 8, 2005 I am not jealous because she does not look better than me, her boby is not better than mine, and I get so much attention from other men that I really dont have time to be jealous. Guys ALWAYS tell me I am fine. I am not bragging, I am just telling you my life. I know there is some smart a$$ saying why you messing with this guy if you have other men to chose from.....well that is another story! now
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