foxes2016 Posted May 27, 2017 Posted May 27, 2017 (edited) At a party she approached me and we started talking but then i left her to go with my friends like an idiot. Eventually we are together again and she asks me to go to dance floor with her, once again like an idiot i said nah. That was that for that night, didn't see her again. So now at work we talk a tiny bit, it's not one-sided conversation, she's in another department so RARELY see each other and if we do it's only once a fortnight. There is at least some form of interest probably just friendly in that she touches my arm, that kind of thing. I was going to ask her out just recently i waited all this time until she was alone which was only when she was leaving, i didn't have much time to at least converse first just briefly talked so ended up letting it go which i regret. Should i just ask her online? She isn't very active online either so i likely won't even get a response. Would really appreciate advice here and what to say, i'm pretty gutted and i don't want to lose any chance i may have. Edited May 27, 2017 by foxes2016
todreaminblue Posted May 27, 2017 Posted May 27, 2017 all you can do is ask or choose not too ask...if you dont ask you will never know ....deb
elaine567 Posted May 27, 2017 Posted May 27, 2017 As you know the girl and see her in person, I would not ask her out online. Bite the bullet, even if she says no, then you can just get on with your life BTW when a girl who you work with and who you actually like asks to go to the dance floor with you, it is NEVER a good idea to say no. Even if she was just being friendly and had no romantic intentions, it was a rude snub, and she will probably not have forgotten that. 1
Author foxes2016 Posted May 27, 2017 Author Posted May 27, 2017 (edited) As you know the girl and see her in person, I would not ask her out online. Bite the bullet, even if she says no, then you can just get on with your life BTW when a girl who you work with and who you actually like asks to go to the dance floor with you, it is NEVER a good idea to say no. Even if she was just being friendly and had no romantic intentions, it was a rude snub, and she will probably not have forgotten that. The issue is i only see her once every 2-3 weeks and it is so difficult to wait like this and attempt to build any rapport. Yes i know (i'm not very good socially), and i regret that night so much since then. I didn't just blow her off though but i didn't go with her. So it would be better to wait like another 3 weeks learn from this and actually ask her out no matter what or contact her online and risk being ignored? I want it to be a bit discrete as it's workplace but she is always with a work buddy in her department as that's what the work requires. Edited May 27, 2017 by foxes2016
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